уничтожил свое прошлое в своем будущем. теперь страшновато, так как я впереди - неизвестность. буквально через несколько месяцев мы встретимся лицом к лицу. что же, времени на подготовку вполне достаточно
понедельник, 28 января 2013 г.
Men are always striving to climb upwards. Femininity is horizontal:
radiating out warmth and nurturing toward surrounding others, and
producing new others to warm and nurture. Masculinity is vertical. It’s
aiming upwards, towards an ideal to be achieved in a man’s self. And
women are always screaming at us to get down off the damned ladder
before we break our necks. (It has to be this way. Always has been and
always will be.)
http://www.counter-currents.com/2012/01/fight-club-as-holy-writ/
http://www.counter-currents.com/2012/01/fight-club-as-holy-writ/
воскресенье, 27 января 2013 г.
воскресенье, 20 января 2013 г.
The Love Test: A Routine
June 2, 2009 by CH
Since I’m feeling generous I will share it with everyone here. Virginal routines that haven’t yet gone mainstream are worth their words in gold, so get on your knees and kiss my triskelion ring for this gift I give you. All I ask is that you don’t use the routine on girls if you happen to be in St Louis, Soweto, Prague, Warsaw, Toronto, or the Australian outback. It’s bad form to cross the streams.
As with all psychological routines designed to elecit an emotionally bonding reaction in a girl and to demonstrate your perspicacity, the way to segue into the love test without sounding a false note is to say “I can tell you something about yourself with a simple game”. Most girls, as long as you have built attraction with them, will bite at this delicious bait.
If you are a girl reading this post who remains unviolated by my tremendous manhood, you may want to give yourself this test before reading the answers. Just read the italicized parts and cover up the answers underneath with your hand.
The Love Test
You will ask the girl a series of six questions within a story in which she is presented with two choices as an answer for each question. She must choose one or the other, and she has to go with her gut. Remind her to answer quickly and to avoid lingering over a choice. At the end of the test, you will tell her what her answers reveal about herself.
“You have a lover, a man who is everything to you. He lives apart from you, but within walking distance. One day you decide to visit him. You have two paths you can take to get to his home. One is a short but boring path that will get you there quickly. The other is a long but scenic path with many beautiful sites that will take longer. Which do you take?”
If she answers “short”, this means she falls in love quickly. She is passionate and impulsive.
If she answers “long”, this means she takes a while to fall in love. She is circumspect and enjoys the buildup to falling in love.
“Along the path you come across rose bushes. The roses come in two colors — red and white. You decide you want to pick some roses for your lover. You are allowed to pick twenty roses of any combination of red or white. How many red and how many white roses do you pick?”
Red roses symbolize selflessness. A woman who picks more red than white roses is a giver in a relationship.
White roses symbolize selfishness. A woman who picks more white than red roses is a taker in a relationship.
[Editor's note: You'd probably not be surprised how many women pick more white than red roses. This part of the test is a great screening mechanism for LTR material.]
“You arrive at your lover’s home and knock on the door. A family member opens the door. Do you ask to be let in so you can go to his room to see him, or do you ask the family member to bring him to the door?”
If she answers “ask to be let in”, she does not let arguments simmer in a relationship. She prefers having it out.
If she answers “bring him to the door”, she lets arguments slide and buries her anger. She avoids conflict and drama.
“You go up to his bedroom and he is not there. You want to leave the roses in his room. Do you leave them on his windowsill or on his bed?”
If she answers “windowsill”, she prefers more casual relationships where she doesn’t feel a need to see her lover very often.
If she answers “bed”, she prefers intense relationships where she sees her lover a lot.
[Editor's note: Windowsill girls are cheap dates.]
“Your lover returns and you two spend the night together making sweet sweet sex. You both fall asleep and in the morning you wake up first. You lean over to his side of the bed to see if he is awake. Is he awake or still sleeping?”
If she answers “awake”, she is the type of girl who will try to change her man into her image of the perfect boyfriend.
If she answers “asleep”, she loves her man just the way he is, flaws and all.
“It’s the end of the day and time for you to say goodbye to your lover and go home. As before, you are presented with two paths to get home — a long but scenic path and a short but boring path. Which path do you take?”
If she answers “long”, she takes a long time to fall out of love. Breakups are hard on her. She is given to nostalgia and reminiscence. She is a natural romantic.
If she answers “short”, she falls out of love quickly. Breakups are short, sharp affairs that she gets over in no time and with little handwringing. She is a natural slut.
The cube game is an involved routine to learn and execute but one
that most girls enjoy. I wait until the first date to do it because
it takes a while to complete and you need an environment where
there are few distractions.
Introduce it by saying, "Hey let's play a game. I'm going to ask
you a few questions and your answers will tell me all I need to
know about you." Tell her to relax before you begin, then start. As
you read the routine, pretend I'm doing it on you so you can try to
analyze your answers afterwards.
"Imagine yourself in the middle of the desert. It's a really big
desert and you are the only person there." She may close her eyes
to better imagine this scene. "Now in the middle of this desert,
there is a cube. Describe this cube to me, however you imagine it
to be."
Ask about its size, its relation to the desert (on the floor,
floating in the air, etc.), and what material it's made out of.
Urge her to be as detailed as possible, and only continue when she
is completely done answering.
"In addition to the cube, there is a ladder. Where is this ladder
in relation to the cube?" Ask what material it is made out of and
how many rungs it has.
"Next up is a horse. Where is the horse in relation to the cube and
the ladder?" Ask her about the size, type, and color of the horse.
"Now imagine flowers. Where are they in relation to the cube,
ladder, and horse?" Ask her about the quantity, color, and type of
flowers. Always give her time to provide rich details to get her
imagination going.
"Finally, there is a storm in the horizon. Is the storm coming
closer to you, going away, or staying still?" Then tell her that
the game is finished and that her answers are very interesting.
Feel free to hype up the upcoming analysis by saying you learned
something about her that you didn't expect.
When it comes to the analysis, all you have to know is that the
cube is a representation of her, the ladder is her friends and
family, the horse is her lover, the flowers are her future
children, and the storm is a big problem. With a general idea of
what each one means, and your understanding of the girl, you will
make up an analysis that is both believable and accurate.
Generally, a large cube means her ego is large. A small cube means
insecurity, but keep the analysis positive in this case by saying
she is timid or not in possession of a large ego. The material of
the cube displays strength. If her cube material is strong and
solid instead of hollow, this means she is a strong person capable
of handling problems without collapsing, and so on. A soft cube and
she is hesitant and needs a lot of assurances before starting a new
task.
The ladder is her support circle. The closer her ladder is to the
cube, the more she relies on her friends and family. If the ladder
leans on her cube, she relies on them as much as they do. If the
ladder is on top of her cube, her circle may be smothering her. If
it's far away, she doesn't rely on them much. Rungs on a ladder say
how many people are close to her life. A strong ladder material
says she can count on her family and friends more than if it was
made with weaker material.
The horse size says whether she wants a dominant or subordinate
male. A large horse means she wants to be led. A pretty horse like
a pony means she wants a metrosexual man. A small horse means she
wants to dominate her partner. The distance between the horse and
the cube and ladder says how close her lover will be to her life. A
horse in a cage (or otherwise immobilized) means she wants to
destroy you.
The number of flowers says how many children she wants to have. The
closer they are to her lover (the horse) means the father will be
close to the children. I'm not sure what flower type is but you can
make it up to mean what type of gender she prefers or what she
wants her kids to be when they grow up. Finally, the storm's
movement signifies if a problem is coming or going towards her--if
she has to soon deal with something important or not.
Let's do a sample analysis with answers that will be pretty
typical.
Say her cube is about four feet tall, made out of solid wood, and
slightly elevated off the ground. Her ladder is laying on top of
the cube, with ten rungs and made out of metal. There is a large,
black horse that is making circles around the cube and ladder and
there are three yellow dandelions very close by. Finally, she
envisions a storm that is neither coming nor going.
For example if I knew that she is an artsy, independent type, here
is the analysis I would give:
"The cube is a representation of you. Your cube is large, which
means you have a healthy ego and a high sense of self-worth. You
like to keep your head up. The cube is elevated off the ground so
that tells me you're a dreamer. You think a lot and tend to lean
towards the creative side of things instead of the analytical. Wood
is a strong material, meaning you see yourself as strong as well.
It cannot be easily broken. For instance the cube could be hollow
but it's not.
"The fact that your ladder is on top of you means that others rely
on you for support and advice more than you rely on them. So
sometimes you feel smothered. Each rung represents a person who you
are close to, so you have a lot of people that place their trust in
you. The ladder is made out of metal, a strong material, which says
your support network is strong and dependable.
"The horse is your lover. Its large size means you want to be led,
and maybe even dominated. But the horse is not too close to the
cube and ladder, so this means you want space from your lover as
well.
"The three flowers means you want a small family. Yellow is a
neutral color so you imagine at least one boy and one girl. They
are close to the cube and ladder which is good because children
should be close to you and your friends and family. It's hard to
tell from your answers where you lover fits in.
"Finally, the storm represents a problem. It's neither going nor
coming, which means that there may be an issue you have that is
staying with you indefinitely."
Because the cube game is involved, it is best you practice it on at
least five other people before you do it on a date. If you get lost
in your analysis, just shovel back what you already know about her
without being too obvious about it.
For instance if the guy friend you are doing it on for practice is
an alpha male type, tell him his cube says he feels confident with
his decision making and likes to lead. If your date is a really
insecure girl, tell her that she is sometimes filled with doubt and
goes through periods of uncertainty.
I've never had a girl who didn't eat up my cube analysis and it's
not because I was necessarily right, but because girls love playing
games that supposedly reveal their true nature. (By the time you do
the cube on her, she has done a hundred of those multiple-choice
personality quizzes.) Even if you are wrong, she will love telling
you how and why, so in the process you really do learn more about
her.
After you're done giving her analysis, feel free to tell her what
your answers to the cube were when your friend (i.e. me) did it on
you. I guarantee you she'll be curious to hear it.
The cube game takes a lot of practice and homework but it's worth
it because it gives you experience with cold reading, a method of
spitting vague generalities that on the surface seem very personal
and accurate. Generally, the more complicated a routine, the bigger
payoff it has if you execute it correctly.
Before I knew how attraction really worked, I'd approach a girl and
talk about boring topics such as work or her favorite movies, and
then she would politely excuse herself from the conversation only a
couple minutes into it. But now I know better. When you talk about
more interesting topics, she sees you as more INTERESTING. Duh,
right? With a couple additional techniques, the "interesting" is
turned into strong attraction.
Once attraction is built you can get her number and take her on a
date later, or go for the one night stand (my preferred method). I
teach you how to do all this in my book Bang, with very specific
steps and guidelines. And of course my book tells you how to keep a
conversation going, whether you just met her or are on a date.
Private Man
@man_private
Dating 2.0: It's better to simply understand the rules
than it is to search desperately and unsuccessfully for the exceptions.
среда, 16 января 2013 г.
oh roosh
No but seriously, no playing around, she’s so ugly that when she wants
to practice birth control, all she has to do is turn on the light.
вторник, 15 января 2013 г.
суббота, 12 января 2013 г.
четверг, 10 января 2013 г.
There is no “One”. There is no soulmate. One is as good as another. None are worth sacrificing for, none are even worth your time more than to convince them to fuck you. They will never love you as you love them. Their love is opportunistic and conditional. And most of all, it is temporary until that better deal comes along. She will leave you bleeding on the side of the road if suits her hypergamy. If the next woman isn’t better than the one you left, then the one after that will be. They are all the same under the hood. The only reason you think you value them is that you have fallen for the scarcity model.
среда, 9 января 2013 г.
понедельник, 7 января 2013 г.
четверг, 3 января 2013 г.
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I have to concur greatly with this post. I have felt that the whole Mid-Life Crisis thing was bullshit, at least from the explanation that is so generally accepted by both, men and most especially, by women.
I read an article some years back where the author was saying that men would experience something in mid-life, a profound depression, possibly due to first realizations of mortality, that you can begin to actually sense the finite nature of life, that you can actually visualize yourself dying. And he ended the article with a warning to men approaching this age “The black dog is on your trail.” Wikipedia says, “the Black Dog is regarded as a ‘portent of death.’” I think all that is a little strong. But it shows the societal buy in to the whole idea of Mid Life Crisis.
But this post by Rollo is as good an explanation and as strong a factor as any fear of death or need to recapture youth, to show you still have it. The notion of the Mid Life Crisis is another Femcentric rationalization exercise to shame you into getting back in line. You need to Man Up and Be A Man.
I get into spats from time to time with my ex-wife, usually in emails. I had one this week. There hasn’t been one in while and this was the first one since I got extremely Red Pill aware and I struck for the jugular in retaliation. The response I got back was so typical in Female Shaming. At first I reacted to it emotionally, and then I just called up the Red Pill. If I had wanted to I could have retaliated with an explosive response. So shaming is exactly those justification, rationalization, and defense mechanisms that women employ to criticize and impugn that which goes against the behavior that they expect and demand from men. It infuriates them when you pull back the curtain and the shaming doesn’t work anymore.
But thanks to this blog, women can’t pull my chains like they could before. And I can certainly yank on theirs.
I constantly comment on the idea of a new paradigm, the whole underlying set of filters and rules by which you emote, judge, act because the paradigm that you have if bullshit and works against you. These topics like Middle Age Crazy are exactly those concepts that you need to reform.
Let me first set some basics. In 2002, I was 47 years old. I was married, two kids, house in Louisville, Colorado, which is an upper middle class suburb of Boulder or Denver, however you wish to look at it. My house was valued at 589,000 at the time of the divorce. We filed income tax on $250,000. I worked in software and she worked as a gas broker, a trader like a stockbroker. We had two young kids, European nannies, 3 cars. Everything revolved around the kids, weekend and weekday activities. I had the kind of credit where you could walk into a dealer, sign a piece of paper, and walk out with a new car. And I was fucking near insane with frustration and anger. I did everything you were supposed to be doing. I get jammed in comments about “your beta ass”. I was doing what you were told by the world that you should be doing. And I wasn’t just standing around saying “Yes ma’am” all of the time. But I did often trade peace for a lost position. So what would have been the alternative in the situation, jacking her ass over every issue, standing my ground all the time? And the rest was just habit, social convention, those things that men do because the world says that men should do them. And we fucking do them because we are good and decent motherfuckers.
Today I live alone. I earn a fraction of what I did back then. Women are practically absent in my life. I have no desire to enter into any sort of LTR with one and unless some remarkable change in fortune occurs then I do not foresee having another one. Because I have no women in my life after such a long time of having them in my life allows me to see the sacrifices that a man has to make in order to have one in his life. It takes so little for me to be happy without that stress of women, their demands, what it takes to get them and keep them.
The difference in me now and then is remarkable. I am genuinely much, much more content today that I was then and by any external judgment of my life today compared to back then, I would easily be considered a failure. I am healthier, much less angry, and in a far better mood most of the time. People would have described me as angry back then and many that read my comments today would say the same. But I don’t feel that way. I feel strongly about creating a new consciousness in men about the reality of women, and of Femcentric society (Femcentric gets a spell checker red line underneath it. It still doesn’t exist as a word yet).
So there is anything that a reader should take from this blog and from the Red Pill is it is “You make a tremendous sacrifice by entering in a Long Term Relationship with a women. And that sacrifice is far greater than you are conditioned to believe. You give your freedom, your effort, your heart, and I can tell you, a tremendous amount of material and financial resources and assets.”
And I can also tell you emphatically. IT WILL GO UNAPPRECIATED. IT IS EXPECTED. IT IS DEMANDED. IT IS THE PRICE OF EVEN SITTING AT THE TABLE.
Now, eventually many of you will get to where I am at, where that circuitry that causes to you desire and wish to have women in your life gets fucking fried, where you cross the line that that last betrayal, that last bullshit selfish bitch, that last episode of dealing with them that will make you choose that it is better to be without them.
Or you can find The Middle Way. And I use that Buddhist term for a reason. Buddhism isn’t a religion. Buddha wasn’t a god or a prophet. He was a dude with an idea that came to him after living life as a rich prince then rejecting that, he lived as a poor beggar monk.
And these are the Four Noble Truths of Buddhism:
-Life is suffering
-We suffer because of our desire and craving
-There can be a cessation of suffering: it is the remainderless fading away and cessation of that same craving, the giving up and relinquishing of it, freedom from it, nonreliance on it.
-There is the way leading to the cessation of suffering: it is the Eightfold Path; that is, right view, right intention, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness and right concentration.
Now substitute the word “suffering” with “suffering because of women” and there you have the end to your suffering.
And the Eightfold Path is Game.
So I said this before. Let me get a little technical. There is the real and there is abstraction. The way you deal with abstraction is to create a frame with an underlying metaphor, a comparison to another thing that might be real or to a subsequent abstraction. If I would say “Freedom”, it would evoke an entirely different to a liberal as it would in a conservative and thus, they have no common ground to find agreement.
So this post shows that some abstractions like “Mid Life Crisis” gets stacked on abstraction, which is further stacked upon more abstractions like “obligation”, “responsibility”, “maturity” and you look at any of those words and see a Femcentric influenced abstraction in each of them.
And that is why I continually preach that the LTR is no good for you. You cannot trust that the abstractions in your head will not fail you at some time and cause you to accept treatment and expectations that you should not, to make decisions or take actions that you should not.
The LTR is a game that even if you even if you don’t lose, you still lose. You have been so conditioned not to see what you have lost, and not to see the true price that you have paid, are paying, and will pay.
It all starts when you are boy and it carries on your whole life. You are herded like cattle into male situations that you believe are what you should do. Both the carrot and stick are used against you to push you and keep you into those situations. It is point of pride for men that most STEM university degrees are earned by men. And those degrees require greater effort, dedication, thought, and capability than others. And I would argue that many of those men are pushed into those degree programs and they complete them because they feel they have no other option. While I was going to engineering school and I would get fed up with the work, the pressure, the not seeing the ground on the way to take a final because my head was scooping from studying and staying in the highest level of abstractions possible, I knew I had no other choice. If I ever left then the money pressure from women would push me right back into it. There would always be that ubiquitous question from them, “What do you do?” I never had another alternative; at least I was conditioned to believe that. The thought of not finishing would make me sick to my stomach with fear. And everything I did from what I ate, to how I dressed, the music I listened to, to the cars I drove was all based and driven by some Femcentric notion that I would be judged worthy or not by women.
And fuck you. Don’t you fucking “beta ass motherfucker” me. Every one of you has to admit the same fucking thing.
You don’t have to go there. You don’t have to do it. Follow Game Buddhism.
So I say this over and over. Until you gain the right consciousness, to understand which values in your head are conditioning from the Femcentric Female Imperative, then rely on Game, the fundamental and basic rules of game. Learn to approach. Learn to give yourself options other than the LTR. Walk on relationships readily and promptly. Never submit. Never marry. Never be afraid to leave and do leave. Set a 90 day limit. Then get the fuck out.
With time, education, exposure, awareness, and true contemplation, the real will make itself apparent from abstract conditioning. Or you can just go along with scam like you have been taught to do.
You are the prize. Your freedom and sanity is the price you will pay for an LTR. You are the one making the real sacrifice and let me tell you, it is a great sacrifice that you make. I have made it and I no longer choose to make it. And by not making it and seeing the benefits of not making it, then I can tell you that it truly is a great sacrifice that you will make if you enter into an LTR with a woman.
She does you no favor and she really favors you by not picking you.
Fuck women. In every sense that phrase entails.