все оказалось довольно просто
ed больше нет
главное теперь - не заработать еще одну зависимость

The real damage will be dealt in his new need for constant repression of this knowledge every time he bangs his wife, every time she nags, every time she gives him that doe-like thousand yard stare; he’ll understand the oldest manosphere proverb – once you know about the Matrix there is no going back.

паша доставляет

знаешь, когда я в последний раз покупал сам себе конфеты?.. (мхатовская пауза) Никогда.

You ask: “What purpose is there in life?”
What if I were to say, there is no purpose beyond what you give it? Could you live with that, or would you seek out an external purpose from somewhere else?
Could you push yourself to your limit out of an INTERNALLY created purpose, rather than an EXTERNALLY given purpose?
You ask: “What direction should I go to make me happy?”
What if I were to say, there is no direction towards happiness. It is a place you choose to be.
Could you still give yourself direction out of an internal purpose, while staying happy NO MATTER WHAT; or would you pretend you were unhappy and could only be happy if you achieved some tangible goal? Could you nurture an insatiable hunger while still feeling satisfied? Or would you start sliding into despair, realizing everything you had that gave you “happiness” were just synthetic sources of it?
How do you conquer the eternal human paradox – that we are dissatisfied with what we have, but only because of that do we always strive for more; only because of that are we capable of things beyond measure?
By EMBODYING the paradox – by both BEING satisfied, AND dissatisfied simultaneously. By always wanting infinitely more, but always being capable of being happy with infinitely less.

feminazi
hamsterbate

ЖЕНСКАЯ ЛОГИКА, НЕСКОЛЬКО КОМЕНТАРИЕВ:
- Мне с тобой так комфортно, ты что пикапер?
- Я сразу поняла, что что-то не так. Такого не бывает. Все прям как-то идеально.
Бля, мне вас искренне жаль, что вам приходиться общаться с уебанами, и для вас это нормальное явление, но зато нет никаких подозрений. Все идет как надо!

- Ты на мне штучки отрабатываешь. Не хочу быть подопытной мышкой.
Если бы ты была жабой, то к тебе никто бы вообще не подошел, не говоря уже про штучки!

- Ты знал что мне так нравится. Ты это знал.
Откуда я блядь это мог знать?? Я это чувствовал, но куда там чувства, ведь я же пикапер.
- Вас там этому научили?
Чему научили?? Что в мире 3 миллиарда телок и каждая разная. То есть нам дали 3 миллиарда вариантов поведений и я угадал?
- Не знаю.
Точно что не знаешь. Вы вообще нихуя не знаете!

- Не хочу быть очередной. Тебе же для галочки.
Для галочки я до тебя уже столько выебал, не поверишь. И если бы для меня было кол-во на первом месте, стоял бы я здесь сейчас с тобой и рассказывал тебе это все или лучше бы провел время с кем-то более позитивно настроенным и сговорчивым?!

- Я не хочу просто так. Мне нужны отношения.
Большей хуеты и представить сложно! Ну заебись что тебе нужны отношения, так что ты хочешь чтоб я сделал? Встал на колени перед тобой и предложил встречаться. Так делали 15 лет тому назад. Вы вообще знаете что такое отношения???? Телки??? Вы хоть раз построили успешные отношения? Вы знаете как их строить? Какой это труд? Что нужно делать? Сколько нужно отдавать и сколько вкладывать? Или вы думаете что отношения это так. Мы вместе и все. Да нахуй вы кому то нужны, если кроме внешности с вас ничего больше взять нельзя. Мне всегда интересно, что про отношения пиздят только телки, но они сука никогда ничего не делают. Все должен сделать пацан! Звонить, приглашать, выгуливать, идти на сближение. А она царевна лягушка решает!

Вот мне интересно как они себе представляют отношения. Я хотел бы почитать или послушать. Только не те споли, романтика, свечи, яхта и вся прочая ебень, которую она начиталась в Натали или насмотрелась в кино и которую организовывает мужик самец. А что делает там телка, кроме как потребляет все, что ей там приготовили??? Ее функция, кроме как раздвинуть ноги??

А то мне нужны отношения? Ну сделай что-то что бы они были, а если их у тебя до сих пор нет, то ты продрачиваешь. Ты хоть раз в жизни подходила к парню знакомиться???

-А ты меня трахнешь и бросишь.
Мне тебя жаль девочка, но ты сама ЭТО знаешь, что кроме секса с тебя больше нечего взять, да еще это и озвучиваешь! Читай, развивайся, расти.

- Я считаю, тренинги это для неудачников.
Такое может сказать только феноменальный Долбоеб.

Shit Ugly Girls Say ‏@ShtUglyGirlsSay

This really cute boy just talked to me in the hallway! 😊 He accidentally bumped into me and said "sorry bro".

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/09/12/the-myth-of-the-lonely-old-man/

The truth however is that the longer you remain uncommitted, the more opportunities will be available to you. It’s been stated by wiser Men than I that women are dream-killers – and while I agree with this, I’d say this is due more to the man involved, and their own complicity and apathy, than some grand scheme of women.

mid-life crysis

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/11/19/mid-life-crisis/

Remember, misery is comfortable. It's why so many people prefer it. Happiness takes effort.

вроде бы нету ошибок, а есть только обратная связь.
что-то в последнее время только одна обратная связь, блин.

поеду сегодня покупать Л. хотя, мало ли я химии ел в жизни

roosh

It’s funny how when a woman realizes that no man she wants will date her, she rationalizes all sorts of ways while singledom is awesome. And by funny I mean sad.

фактически описание идеи маносферы, пожалуй

Plate Theory and, really, efficient Game can seem dehumanizing, but what Game denialists fail to grasp is that they’re already operating in a dehumanized environment – it’s the social conditioning of the feminine imperative that makes men believe that Game is inhumane, because the feminine imperative has made itself synonymous with humanity.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you’re a great, poetic soul. Hypergamy doesn’t care about your most sincere religious devotions. Hypergamy doesn’t care if you’re a great Father to your kids. Hypergamy seeks its own level, it wants the best commodity it’s capable of attracting and maintaining. Hypergamy is above all, practical, and thus Men, the True Romantics must be pragmatists to enact their own sexual strategy.

http://3rdmilleniummen.wordpress.com/2012/07/26/shit-test-responses/

под прочтением "anatomy of female power" вспомнилось, как на свадьбе друга в самом начале застолья было что-то вроде танца свеженареченных мужа и жены. Помню, как они танцуют, вроде все хорошо, но потом их окружают куча жирных теток с их не менее дочерьми и кружат хоровод. Друг один, с женой, окруженный. Что-то тогда во мне дрогнуло. Теперь я по-крайней мере знаю, что и почему.
Интуиция, великая весчь :)

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xxx: девки до сих пор под впечатлением от секс-шопа
yyy: хм
yyy: тоже сходить чтоли?
yyy: чотам покупать?
xxx: всякие чулки там
xxx: костюмчеги
xxx: приспособления для половой ебли
xxx: смазочки и тд
xxx: бабу можно купить!)
xxx: а от мужуков только запчасти
yyy: :)))))
yyy: А ВСЕ ПОТОМУ ЧТО НАМ НУЖНА ЖЕНЩИНА РЯДОМ А ИМ ТОЛЬКА ХУЙ!!!
xxx: ДААААААААААААА!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dear XXX,
Thank you for showing your patriotism by participating in the "ZZZ" online petition on WhiteHouse.gov. We appreciate both your eagerness and full comprehension of the political process. So it is with great admiration that we cordially invite you to go fuck yourself.
Wishing you and your family the very best this holiday,
YYY

Do you ever think of your clientele as uh... "losers?" Are many guys there by themselves? Does it matter to you?

No, not really. I work in a strip club because I'm a drug addict. Who am I to say the customers are losers. I'd say it's 50/50 guys in groups and guys alone.

So, I rode where I could, and sat at a viewpoint for about fifteen minutes talking about motorcycles with the Under-Sheriff of Skamania county. He rides, and we had a blast sitting there staring at Mt. St. Helens and talking about the Elk and Deer that inhabit the area. It was a memory that will last forever. Fifteen minutes with a total stranger permanantley imprinted on my mind. It sure beat the hell out of spending the day perusing the aisles of K-Mart with a fat bitch of a wife.

http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/274495936.html

“you’re such a good guy, just wait, someone else is out there for you” – “you don’t have to change a thing, you’re a wonderful person, just keep being yourself” – “you don’t need muscles, only jerks care about having big muscles” – “there’s nothing wrong with you, you just need to be a bit more confident that’s all” – “confidence comes from the inside, not from the outside“

резюме по отношениям с Н.
Our great risk in life is not that we aim too high and fail, but we aim too low and succeed.

you can still fuck up by being yourself

Third date – first sex.
Fourth date – first sober sex.
Fifth date – first facial (hers, not yours, unless you are a manboob).
Two week mark – first prompt reply to her text.
Three week mark – first “real” date (e.g., a dinner, a movie, a charity event, a show at the local indie club, a walk through a quaint town).
Three week plus one hour mark – first pang of jealousy when you see her talking to the DJ.
One month mark – first home-cooked meal that you make for her at your place.
Two month mark – first intentional public exposure to her friends.
Three month mark – first intentional public exposure to your friends.
Three and a half month mark – first minor fight.
Three and a half months plus one hour mark – first minor make-up sex.
Four month mark – first major date (possibly requiring significant cash outlay). Examples: a play, a sporting event, a beach trip, a bed and breakfast.
Five month mark – first little romantic gift.
Six month mark – first “I love you”. From her, you poindexter!
Six and a half month mark – first “Right back atcha” to her “I love you”.
Seven month mark – first “I love you, too” from you to her. Don’t say it more than once. Scarcity is the glow of clits.
Eight month mark – first tentative talk of exclusivity not requiring a signed affidavit from you.
Nine month mark – first talk of impending anniversaries and nostalgia for that “first time you met”.
Nine and a half month mark – first anal. Explain that it’s time for her to prove her love more deeply.
Ten month mark – first major fight that ends when you walk out the door to sounds of her muffled cries.
Ten months plus one day mark – first mind-blowing make-up sex. Break a chandelier.
Ten and a half month mark – first bigger romantic gift.
Ten and three-quarters month mark – first application of instilled dread. Call late “from the office”; make sure sounds of laughing girls can be overheard in background.
Eleven month mark – first flirting with the waitress in front of her.
Eleven and a half month mark – first major fight that ends with you and her talking it out on the couch. Prepare for hours of boredom.
One year mark – first serious talk about exclusivity. Getting harder to dodge now.
One year and one month mark – first talk about meeting her parents.
One year and two month mark – second talk about meeting her parents.
One year and two months plus one hour mark – first talk about why she hasn’t met your family.
One year and three month mark – first faked orgasm.
One year and four month mark – first meeting with her family.
One year and five month mark – first major fight that neither of you are all that interested to resolve.
One year and six month mark – first “recapture the glory” fancy date followed by public sex in an alley.
One year and seven month mark – first talk of marriage.
One year and seven months plus one hour mark – first thoughts of suicide or expatriation.
One year and eight month mark – first infidelity (ideally yours, not hers).
One year and nine month mark – first caught cheating.
One year and ten month mark – first serious, imploring talk of threesome (two girls, one guy, unless you are a manboob).
Two year mark – first time you let it slip to the hot co-worker that you have a girlfriend.
Two years and one month mark – proposal! to move in together!
Two years and one month plus one hour mark – prank retraction!
Two years and one month plus one hour and five minutes – frantic consolation that retraction was a joke.
Two years and two month mark – first soul-shaking thought that this might be the last vagina you ever plunder.
Two years and three month mark – marriage! WHAAAAAAATTTT?!?!??! Unmarried cohabitation! That’s more like it.
Two and a half years mark – first secretive make-out with her lonely friend who just got dumped by a fighter pilot.
Three year mark – marriage!
Four year mark – marriage?!? still?!?!
Five year mark – first kid.
Six year mark – first interest in living in the suburbs.
Seven year mark – first time you find this blog.
Seven year and one hour mark – first bottomless pit of regret.
Fifteen year mark – first gray pube. On her. You die a little inside.

Embrace your testosterone, really, it’s OK. No one faults a woman for not being attracted to an ambitionless, unsuccessful guy. You shouldn’t feel guilty for admitting to a preference for a girls ass or the size of her chest.

Dating 2.0:
For Women:

• Reject a man immediately for the slightest of reasons
• Never settle
• Chemistry trumps compatibility
• There is always another man (online dating) right around the corner
• Gatekeepers to sexuality

For Men:

• Chivalry is dead (no gifts, fancy dinner dates, or compliments)
• Soft harem
• Pick-up artistry and learned Charisma
• Numbers game online dating
• Gatekeepers to commitment

alpha fucks and beta bucks

http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/12/12/the-rationalization-hamster-is-now-immortal/

Bad Decision:
“I’m going out and getting drunk with my friends.”
Resulting Consequences:
Drunken and unsatisfactory hookup sex with a stranger.
Hamster Processing Result:
“I was drunk and he took advantage of me or maybe even raped me! Maybe it was a date rape drug!”
Final Result:
“It’s not my fault.”

Bad Decision:
“I deserve only the most attractive and successful man despite the fact that I don’t have much to offer in the context of dating and relationships.”
Resulting Consequences:
Can’t find any man for dating or a relationship or only has one-night stands.
Hamster Processing Result:
“There are no good men” or “Men suck”
Final Result:
“It’s not my fault.”

Bad Decision:
“I have such chemistry [vagina tingles!] with this guy so I’ll ignore the obvious red flags regarding his character.”
Resulting Consequences:
The sex is great for a short time and then the guy dumps her.
Hamster Processing Result:
“All men are players”
Final Result:
“It’s not my fault.”
Bad Decision:
I want to have a baby but I don’t have a man.
Resulting Consequences:
8lb bundle of “joy” through dubious means and resultant loss of career opportunities because of time management issues.
Hamster Processing Result:
“I’m a strong and empowered woman fulfilling her own needs but who has an employer who doesn’t support my lifestyle decision.”
Final Result:
“It’s not my fault.”
Note how the final result is always the same.

fattitude

shit-eating grin

barely bangable

Wearing two condoms at once is safer.

How's the kid?

Pregnant.
edit: again*

level of betatude

“One does not gain interest in monogamy. Monogamy gains interest in you. Thanks to father time.
Or the alternative… hookers in your 60′s.”
Yes, and Neil Strauss thought the same thing, that game allowed him to find his special little soul mate, that Game was for boys, and that eventually monogamy finds you. So he quit to be with his special snowflake.
And three years later she was fucking Robbie Robertson and Strauss was back in Game.
Any of you that think you are so alpha, so in possession of tight Game that you are immune to the conditioning and distractions, the sense of entitlement, the cultural reality of women as they truly are,
then you better think again.
You better lose this idea that monogamy is the natural progression of maturity. It is a run for a safe harbor and it has its own price to pay.
And hookers in your 60s would be better than that beast that would be in the bed with you if marry now.

баш

Баранесса.

“You don’t have to accept your brain’s first interpretation of the things that happen to you. You can frame them in any way you wish to stay undisturbed by the randomness of life, because if good things make you happy and bad things make you sad, you will forever be a slave to things that you cannot control.”

http://www.rooshv.com/one-piece-of-advice

So here’s some helpful ways to break your own pattern:

1.Take a moment and think about what you’re most anxiousabout. Is it approaching? Is it showing sexual interest? Is itasking a girl out? Is it the first kiss? 

2.Now write down your pattern with it. So for instance, “Callingwomen, pattern is apathy,” or “Approaching women, pattern isblame game.” 

3.Now, create a goal for yourself, for instance, “Call everyphone number I get, no matter how much I don’t care.” Writeit down.

4.Tell a friend or a buddy what you plan on doing and ask him tokeep you accountable.

That last item is important. Sharing your fears and having someonekeep you accountable is integral to this whole process and makes it10 times easier. Even the very act of sharing your fear with someonewho can empathize and understand goes a long way to relieving thepressure.

сделал первую в жизни халтуру за 2.5 дня. можно было и за 2, но тогда был бы сильно уставшим.

П. оказывается Пушкин.

System.Reflection выебал остатки мозга после выходных.
Н. скучная.

Сны
Сегодня ночевал у Н, она приболела. Подсознание мне ясно показало, что полностью согласно с моим решением, дав пару весьма забавных моментов. Например, в последнем сне я избавился от ED, начал, так сказать, процесс и он мне не нравится именно из-за действий Н.
Быть честным с собой – это очень хорошо. Не забыть спросить на форуме, как лучше расстаться с ФЭЛВ.

Before  we  finish up  this section, you   may   be saying  to  yourself: “This is all nice, but reading Hemingway or developing  opinions  on  Chaucer  or  Bach  will  never get me laid in a       dance                                                
club.”Well… touche.

еще разок по болевой.

В своих отношениях с противоположным полом он руководствовался чудовищным винегретом из первобытных импульсов, смутных домыслов, ложных теорий, полузабытых дурных советов, обрывков случайного разговора и откровенно гротескных анекдотов.

мне кстати вчера уебали по болевой. во что такое перекрест с 1 на 3.

ed оказалось намного серьезней, чем я ожидал вначале. сабреддит вывел на инфу, которая прямо сказала, что мне никак нельзя делать то, что я собирался.

[–]ununpentium89 1363 очка 15 часов назад

My boyfriend made everything simple for me- he pointed me in the direction of his Amazon wishlist. Can't go wrong.

[–]ShoGunzalez 1188 очков 15 часов назад

Great idea! I'm so going to do this, I just need to get me a girlfriend...

[–]TomTheGeek 1813 очков 12 часов назад

Put one on your Amazon wishlist.

[–]potatohead_v2 531 очко 11 часов назад

What the hell mom, I clearly specified on my wishlist that she must be blonde, this is the worst birthday gift ever!

[–]Bamres 358 очков 10 часов назад

I WANTED THE WHITE ONE MOM! Really changes when you talk about women instead of apple products.

delivers

Знаете ли вы, что самое распространённое слово,
употребляемое женщиной после выражения «настоящий мужчина»
— это слово «должен»?

maturation = развитие

It is starting to seem as though understanding Woman is a kind of baked in starting point for facing some pretty difficult existential questions for Man. It’s a narrow path that few take. It’s MGTOWish. But it’s more than that. Letting go of women, at least as a source of dependency, as a result of *seeing* them for what they are, makes men face up to the empty void of purposelessness. It’s scary. One wants to run back to the safety of the slavery we knew. But it does resemble the beginning of a path, a kind of spiritual awakening. Or, at the very least, a kind of maturation.

мде..

1
‘People, you can’t have your cake and eat it too. Women aren’t stupid. They put out for commitment.’
No.
Women DON’T put out for commitment. The one trick they always try when they want a guy in ‘commitment mode’ is to NOT give him sex or make him work fucking hard for it. That’s what little Johnny Beta fails to understand.
Be the bit of fun guy. Be the cad. Be the joker. Be the player. Be the asshole. Be the alpha male they got lucky to be with. Be the guy they met on holiday. Be the anecdote of the guy they fucked in a weird situation or whatever. Be any of these things and more.
But do not be the potential ‘nice guy beta provider’ slaving over their every word just like the rest of the chumps. It doesn’t work.
2
Be the guy who keeps wasting women for the rest of men who don’t want to organise their lives around pussy.
Thanks a lot.
1
Be the guy who keeps unnecessarily putting women on a pedestal (while never getting respect for it) so it makes screwing them or having a balanced relationship with them that bit harder for anyone else.
Thanks a lot.

        Упражнение 1: лингвистические пирамиды.
        Упражнение: Чем ворон похож на стол (2 предмета)
        Упражнение: Продвинутое связывание (как с вороном, но и части предметов)
        Упражнение: О чем вижу, о том и пою. (любой предмет, 5 минут)
        Упражнение: Продолжить тему (любую)
        Упражнение: оранжевое настроение (5 прилагательных)

измеритель влечения для 4Э. представь, что ты расстался с ней, представь это очень ярко и натурально, а потом замерь, сколько времени уйдет на то, чтобы переключить внимание.
Н1 - две недели.
Н2 - две минуты.

A common thing u will hear is: "But I have a boyfriend so we can only be friends." U need to ket her know that her attempt to steer the interaction is not going to fly with u. Say, "Well, how about you do what  u want to do and I'll do what I want to do. Hopefully its the same thing, but if not, its not a big deal." Let her respond then add "U can classify things if it makes u feel better, but I like to take thing only one step at a time, whether it is a relationship or dating or anything else" This sends the message that u are going to do waht u want to do, regardless of what she says. When a girl drops the "I have a boyfriend" line on u, fire off a cocky response that lets her know you dont care. "Good, he'll give you smth to do when I'm not around" or "God, I just met u and u are already telling me about your problems" NEVER ASK A GIRL WHETHER SHE IS SINGLE OR NOT.

Uhhm? Adam Lyons anyone? He broke this down into this, then I applied it with golden results:
"Hi! I am sorry to bother you... I am on my way to see my friends... I noticed that you really have a nice smile and I will be kicking myself for a day if I didn't get to introduce myself to you at least... I am Adam!" The ellipses meant pauses. Lyons broke it down and explained the choice of words.
"Hi. I am sorry to bother you" - something about being courteous. Remember this is daytime gaming so girls are on DEFCON 2. "I am on my way to see my friends" - false time constraint so she won't have to worry about you sticking around. "I noticed that you really have a nice smile" - then pause. Who does not love compliments? "I will kicking myself for a day if I didn't get to introduce myself to you at least" - something about softeners, Lyons said. "I am Adam!" - you should calibrate the situation first before giving your name. Remember, your name should be a reward to the girl for giving you IOI's. SO make a nice pause + eye contact after your softener. If she gives some nice vibes then say your name. If not then wait some more or force it.
And how are we going to close this? Remember you're in a time constraint right? Say "Look, I know if we are both in a hurry but I would love to bump with you for some sushi. Punch in your digits here so I can call you later."

b сеня доставляет

Marishka: дис, что такое ТП?
aglomit: Контекст нужен...
Marishka: а что такое контекст?
aglomit: Тупая Пизда

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xxx: парни мне постоянно говорят что у меня красивая накаченая задница- попа персик и больше ничего не замечают, мне иногда кажется что они встречаются с моим задом)) что делать?))
yyy: жим лежа

 

удаляю ссылку на этот дневник из вк. если кто-то это читает - продолжайте на свой страх и риск, если хотите. я предупредил.

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xxx > *лять щас в скайриме со мной должна была встретится самка чтоб пойти мочить дракона
xxx > ПРИКИНЬТЕ ДАЖЕ ОНА НЕ ПРИШЛА

http://www.rooshv.com/women-who-own-iphones-lose-the-ability-to-love

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/11/22/social-media-and-female-self-esteem/

наконец-то мой мозжечок осознал, что не следует завязывать отношения на учебе/работе. мишаня показывает впечатляющие результаты.

kino games

thumb test http://www.quirkology.com/USA/Experiment_AnalyseYourself.shtml

The hand slap game, also known as "Slapsies" -- you hold out your hands, palms facing up. She'll hover her hands above yours, palms down, and you try to slap the backs of her hands before she can pull them away. Then switch. Always gets a smile and it's a good way to work in some playful kino.

Have more fun with your comments and exercise a wider imagination. “Fuck” is so passé, forgettable. Here are some examples one can start with instead:
“Foul”, “abominable”, “inelegant”, “pig disgusting”, “Lovecraftian horror”, “poor imitation of a program”, “Beelzebub himself hath not seen such filth”, “fatally bad”, “eye poison”, “something an uphill ant with asthma would outperform”, “in need of various religious rites performed thereof before it can be deleted and erased from history”, “the monkey that thought he could”, “most unclean”, “Satanic verses”, “dark incantations”, “PHP-esque”, “unimaginably without precedent”, “platonic primordial soup”, “insidious”, “binders full of bad lines of code”, “darkness”, “interdimensional miscalculation”, “code of the beast”, “something wicked this way compiles”, “unimportable”, “it keeps asking me if I'm the keymaster”, “someone crossed the streams and this is what resulted”, “illegitimate spawn”, “algorithmically destitute”, “abandoned depravity”, “Brendlefly”, “ocean of slime”, “The Da Vinci Couldn't”, etc.
That's if you think the code is OK. If you think the code is great:
“Not bad”, “can't see any problems so far”, “suspiciously unbroken.”

So one day this penguin is driving around when his car breaks down. He gets it towed to the nearest mechanic who tells him it will be an hour until he finds whats wrong. So the penguin walks around downtown for a while and he sees this ice cream shop on the corner. He walks in and orders a ice cream cone. Unfortunately, he cant hold the cone with flippers and spills the ice cream all over himself. He gets upset and walks back to the mechanic and asks him what is wrong with his car, and the mechanic says, "Well, it looks like you just blew a seal." The penguin says, "Oh no, I just spilled some ice cream."

        Если вы попросите кого-нибудь вообразить, что он прикасается к бархату, его взгляд, скорее всего, устремится вправо вниз: это направление соответствует доступу к кинестетическим переживаниям. Если же ведущая модальность этого человека визуальная, то он, возможно, сначала бросит быстрый взгляд вверх - так мы обычно обращаемся к зрительным воспоминаниям. Эти правила описывают схему визуальных (взгляд вверх) и аудиальных (взгляд в стороны) представлений. В свою очередь, человек посмотрит влево, если он вспоминает зрительный образ, и вправо, если его конструирует. В отличие от воспоминаний о реальных переживаниях, образы или звуки при их конструировании синтезируются (создаются). Это происходит, например, когда вы пытаетесь представить себе знакомую комнату с другой мебелью. Показатели кинестетического и аудиально-дискретного восприятия несколько отступают от этой схемы. При обращении к кинестетическим воспоминаниям взгляд переводится вправо вниз, а аудиально-дискретная память заставит глаза обратиться вниз влево. Конечно, глядя на собеседника, вы должны поменять эти направления местами.

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11wqpa/the_3_dates_game/

So say something like "Alright that's enough questions, I want to find out more about you so when we get married I have some embarassing things I can say about how you tried to impress me when we first met..."

 Rebel Without A Cause, starring James Dean
Brando
Heath Ledger
Ryan Gosling

какой же мудила это переводил

В этот момент что-то бабахает прямо рядом со мной.
Это падают с потолка полтонны сверкающего, переливающегося, обработанного вручную австрийского хрусталя.
Если бы я стояла на пару дюймов ближе к центру, меня бы уже не было в живых.
Ха- ха! Ну разве это не смешно? Меня и так нет в живых.





        And right then:
        Crash.
        A half ton of sparkling, flashing, white-light, hand-cut Austrian crystal, the big chandelier drops from the center of the foyer ceiling and explodes too close.
        Another inch, and I'd be dead.
        How can I not laugh. I'm already dead.

        Изучите, насколько реализуются в вашей жизни четыре столпа нейролингвистического программирования. То есть, опираясь на настоящее и текущее, оцените, знаете ли вы желаемый вами результат (и насколько ясное представление о нем имеете); проявляете ли чувствительность в плане продвижения к нему; имеете ли достаточно гибкости, чтобы действовать по принципу «если не так, сделаем иначе»; и находитесь ли вы в достаточном согласии с собой, другими и миром.



        С учетом данных упражнения 3, попробуйте если и не пересмотреть, то, по крайней мере, оптимизировать следующий отрезок вашей жизнедеятельности, основываясь на принципах результата, чувствительности, гибкости, а также раппорта.

WD @ 50 of NF.
буем знать.

        Как вы узнаете, что вы достигли своего результата? Каково сенсорно обоснованное подтверждение, которое даст вам понять, что вы уже получили то, чего хотели? Что вы увидите, услышите и почувствуете, когда достигнете его? Некоторые результаты настолько неопределенны, что на их достижение ушло бы несколько жизней. Вы могли бы также установить временные ограничения на то, когда вы желаете получить свой результат.
        Есть ли у вас ресурсы для того, чтобы инициировать и поддерживать результат? В чем вы нуждаетесь? Может быть, они у вас уже имеются? Если нет, то как вы собираетесь их получить? Это момент, который должен быть тщательно изучен. Эти ресурсы могут быть внутренними (особые умения, или позитивные состояния разума) или внешними. Если вы нуждаетесь во внешних ресурсах, возможно, у вас появится необходимость поставить вспомогательный результат, чтобы получить их.
        Результат должен иметь реальные размеры. Он может быть слишком большим, и тогда его следует разбить на несколько более мелких, легко достижимых результатов. Например, вы можете поставить перед собой цель - стать лучшим игроком в теннис. Это, очевидно, не произойдет на следующей неделе, это слишком смутный и отдаленный по времени результат. Его следует разбить на меньшие куски, так что спросите себя: “Что препятствует мне в достижении этого?”

ы

        1. Определить, сколько денег в месяц ты готов тратить на женщин. Какой у тебя есть бюджет на развлечения другого человека, который ты можешь спокойно вычеркнуть из своих доходов.
        2. Тратить эти деньги на свою одежду, внешний вид, косметику, парфюм и только на себя.

[–]ellisjaynes 1817 очков 8 месяцев назад

Okay, look. I get it. Girls are tough. Being in love with one is tougher. But man the fuck up.
You want to know how to get the girl? Stop falling in love so easily, you fucking idiot. Unless you've been locked in a basement with one chick for the last three years, I guarantee you've been ignoring all the amazing women you come into contact with on a daily basis because you've got your head up your ass over this one particular chick, and probably because she just happened to be nice to you. And what that means is you aren't into her because she's a cool person - you're into her because you think she gives you something you need. Validation, maybe, a feeling of wholeness, a feeling that you could be what you want if you just got this one. Last. Piece in place.
Fuck that, dude.
Listen. You want to know when I started getting women? When I figured out what I was about. When I figured out what I was good at, what made me unique as a human fucking being. It has nothing to do with them. It has everything to do with you.
"I like you." Fuck that. Ask her out. Say, "Hey, you want to go on a date on Friday? See a movie?" Because how the fuck is she supposed to respond to "I like you"? "Oh, cool, I like you too. I guess we can just sit here liking each other then. Awesome." Jesus Christ, dude. Bring something to the goddamn table.
I mean, who are you? What are you proud of? And don't give me some whiny bull shit about your low self-esteem. If that's the problem, stop trying to get women and figure out your own shit. You want to know what real love is? You want to know what endures in a romantic relationship? It's two people who know themselves well enough not to need another person recognizing that they want to be with another person.
Who are you, son? Be still and know. When you know, and when you do the shit you do and be the motherfucker you are, you will find somebody. And your eyes will be open because you won't need that ONE person. You will be secure enough to find someone that is equally secure in the knowledge of who they are.
Goddammit you fucking asshole, did you even consider Sarah? Or Heather? Or that girl who sits in the back row of class and doesn't say much, and so you never knew how well she sang, or the fact that she's been playing piano since she was six years old? HOW FUCKING COOL IS THAT? Do you know what it's like to be with a girl who sings, motherfucker? It's amazing! And you won't ever know that because you're too hung up on some chick who's just as insecure as you are, and who won't date you because she's too scared people will judge her by her boyfriend.
Jesus. Fucking. Christ. I'm so pissed off because I fucking WAS you, man, and because I wasted so much time looking to women when I should have looked to myself. The sooner you really understand that, the sooner you start to know who you are, the sooner you'll find out how many amazing women there are, and how lucky you'd be to get to know some of them.
Getting this hung up on one girl is like refusing to go to dinner with your friends unless they go to La Hacienda. "I only like Mexican food," you say. "I only want Mexican food. I don't even believe there ARE other things to eat, because I'm too fucking blind and stupid to get over my own obsessions and fears." Well guess what, motherfucker? Pad Thai is the shit, and if you never pull it together enough to realize that, nobody's going to fucking cry for you. We're going to eat your goddamn dinner.
You hear me? You ignore all these other beautiful and amazing women, you continue to be some insecure little boy about this shit, then the rest of us will meet those women and show them the time of their lives, because we ain't scared. We know who we are, and we're on the front line not giving a fuck. Rejection ain't shit but words. You don't understand that, you deserve to have your heart shit on.
I've been you. It sucks. Know thyself, motherfucker, and the ladies will want to know you too.

I had to get away from there. I didn't want to be associated with the
madness—even if I was part of it.

But after watching the auditors, I began to think that perhaps routines
weren't training wheels after all; they were the bike.'

а ты умнее чем ты выглядишь

my biggest fear is being bored or boring.

It was amazing how effective just a few simple lines
could be—and it was also a little depressing. The first thing aspiring standup
comics do is develop a tight five-minute routine that can win over any
audience. But after seeing hundreds of rooms fill with laughter on cue at
the exact same points, they begin to lose respect for their audience for being
so easily manipulated.

MEN WEREN'T REALLY THE ENEMY—THEY WERE FELLOW VICTIMS
SUFFERING FROM AN OUTMODED
MASCULINE MYSTIQUE THAT MADE
THEM FEEL UNNECESSARILY
INADEQUATE WHEN THERE WERE
NO BEARS TO KILL.

There is a limited amount of oxygen in the room for a given solution.

Do things you enjoy to distract you from the fact that nothing you do really matters

если надо что-то объяснять - то ничего объяснять уже не надо

        Опущения частей в модели пациента могут казаться психотерапевту настолько очевидными, что он может начать давать своему пациенту советы о том, с помощью каких других способов можно было бы справиться с трудностями. Скорее всего, мы согласились бы с большей частью советов психотерапевта, однако, как подсказывает практический опыт, опыта психотерапии, советы, которые попадают в пробелы, возникшие в модели пациента в результате опущений, оказываются довольно неэффективными. Опущения обеднили модель пациента, причем непредставленными в модели оказались именно те части возможного опыта, которые психотерапевт подсказывает или советует пациенту. В подобных случаях пациент обычно оказывает сопротивление словам психотерапевта, либо не слышит предлагаемых выборов, не воспринимая их, потому что в его модели их нет. Поэтому мы рекомендуем психотерапевту воздержаться от советов до тех пор, пока модель клиента не станет достаточно богатой, чтобы вместить их в себя.

My ex-wife used to call my penis "God's Little Joke".

I'm so sorry I laughed at that...

That's what his ex-wife used to say.

Fuck the dealer. Pick a dealer. Going clockwise from the dealer the first person guesses a card. The dealer then tells the person if the card is correct, higher, or lower. If they were wrong the first time, the person then guesses again to try and guess correctly. If the person guesses wrong the second time they drink the difference between the card numbers...IE: they guessed 10 when its actually a 3, the person would drink 7 sips or seconds.
If the person guessing correctly guesses it on the first try the dealer has to drink 4 seconds worth, If they guess it correctly on the second try the dealer has to drink 2 seconds worth.
If the dealer can successfully stump 3 people in a row, the cards pass to the person next to the dealer and they become the new dealer
You do not want to be the dealer towards the end of the game, as less cards makes it easier to guess whats coming next...you will get fucked

first person to roll the cup would half fill it with whatever they are drinking. 2nd person to roll the cup would fill it the rest of the way with their drink. 3rd person to roll that cup gets to drink whatever nasty (or surprisingly good) mixture is a result. works best if you're drinking high alcohol % drinks. 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kings_%28drinking_game%29

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stump_%28game%29

http://www.drinkingwithrules.com/

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us most. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of the universe. You playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of human life that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in all of us. It resides within every person you know, and it connect us all with each other. No matter what your religion, worldview, cultural disposition, or social standing, we are all human beings. When we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

и это тоже чертовски важно

        1. Высоко развили способность к визуализации.
        2. Развили и используют множественные связи между органами чувств.
        3. Используют множественные перспективы.
        4. Обладают в высшей степени развитой способностью переходить на разные позиции восприятия.
        5. Обладают способностью легко переходить с одного уровня мышления на другой и пользоваться “кусками информации” разного размера.
        6. Удерживают петлю обратной связи между абстрактным и конкретным.
        7. Поддерживают баланс когнитивных функций: Мечтателя, Реалиста и Критика.
        8. Задают основные вопросы.
        9. Используют метафоры и аналогии.
        10. Имеют миссию, выходящую за пределы собственной идентичности.

легко избавился от своего "самого страшного страха". он был вызван комбинацией 2в и 3ф (как ни странно, и у 2в есть недостатки). теперь все хорошо, только болеть надоело

What would be your best advice for a mid 30's, fairly attractive guy who just cant seem to find the "right" girl? It's for a friend.

Honestly, there are so many factors. I can't make a determination without meeting him, sorry. Usually, there is nothing wrong with them, per se. The problem is just a little something, a slight behavioral adjustment that will open the world for them. But without meeting them I cant really determine what that is. 

Tell them to lower their standards.

How many PM's are you getting saying "well, if you insist that you could never spend that much money if you tried, why not give me a million?"
I admit, it's always really tempting to ask for money when someone is so blatant about having too much.

I just got a PM from a young lady asking to go on a date.... I found that to be very blunt and ballsy 

вообшето я тебе нечего непредлагал и неначто ненамикал! каждый думает в меру своей распушенности! незнаю как ты ая просто обшался стобой! и знакомиться несобирался ауж темболее заташить впостель! Ты немой тип!!

больше переживаю из-за того, что по глупости не выздоровел (попил холодной газировки из автомата), чем из-за расставания с А. И это хорошо :)

[–]FhtagnNSuch 116 очков 7 часов назад

That turret is a better girlfriend than any I've ever had.

[–]Lord_Gibby 54 очка 6 часов назад

GO GET 'EM BABY!

[–]OMGbigEars 15 очков 1 час назад

his best line, but its said way too many times, is "have you guys met my girlfriend?

все это говно теперь надо перечитать в оригинале

        No matter how careful you are, there's going to be the sense you missed something, the collapsed feeling under your skin that you didn't experience it all. There's that fallen heart feeling that you rushed right through the moments where you should've been paying attention.

        Well, get used to that feeling. That's how your whole life will feel some day.

        Pretty much nobody is getting their emotional needs met.

        1. Подумайте о проблеме, с которой столкнулись. Особенно если эта проблема — взаимоотношения с другими.






        2. Посмотрите на картинку на этой странице. И попробуйте смотреть “действительно открыто”, как будто видите это в первый раз, пытаясь в хаосе точек отыскать осмысленное изображение, — и одновременно тем особым взглядом, который помогает вам увидеть ясное трехмерное изображение.
        3. Теперь, когда вы видите другое измерение и другой уровень изображения, просто подумайте о своей проблеме.

        И снова станьте на миг Альбертом Эйнштейном, вглядывающимся в тайны Вселенной. Представьте, что вы можете прикоснуться к разуму и мудрости гения. Так же, как он, вы можете мчаться на световом луче или вместе с двухмерными существами из плоского мира передвигаться в четырехмерном временном пространстве. Вас может уносить в космическом лифте фантастический “некто” или трамвай, несущийся вспять в прошлое со скоростью, превышающей скорость света. Поймите, что вы, как и Эйнштейн, можете подвергнуть сомнению все устоявшиеся представления о мире, и тогда ваша модель мира станет беспредельной и вы “освободитесь” из застенков собственного мышления.

        4. Заметьте, как изменилось ваше восприятие и отношение к своей проблеме. Многие испытывали подобное: ощущение проблемы меняется полностью, и теперь она видится в совершенно другой “перспективе”.

        В этом свете теория относительности видится как базовая метафора изменения внутри системы, а стратегия, стоящая за ней, — это общая стратегия решения проблем, возникающих в меняющихся системах сопротивления. Почти в каждой изменяющейся ситуации— общественной или личной — существует конфликт между (1) частью системы, стремящейся изменяться, представляющей изменения, верящей в их осуществление и (2) частью системы, которая убеждена, что изменения являются ненужным, глупым риском, это вообще невозможно. Эта часть — сторонница ранее сформированной, более ограниченной, но такой знакомой и стабильной модели мира.

новости

минус А. жаль, жаль. но теперь у меня есть не только ангелы-хранители :)

вперед.

а 2э все очень очень здорово чувствует

и что я раньше делал на работе без реддита?

а 3в реально пуглива :))))

в худшем случае я потеряю 500 р. а в лучшем - :)

        Цель заявлена утвердительно
        Ее достижение зависит от вас
        Она подтверждаема с помощью органов чувств
        Находится в нужном контексте
        Сохраняет все преимущества настоящего положения
        А после того, как вы добавите еще четыре пункта, можете считать, что произвели полную спецификацию цели. После чего можно смело браться за ее достижение.
        Цель имеет подходящие размеры
        Подобраны ресурсы для ее достижения
        Вы исследовали возможные препятствия на пути к цели
        Намечены первые шаги

        После сбора обратной связи приходит время следующего шага. Это вырабатывание нового поведения, формирование новой цели. Хорошо, повторения такой ситуации я не хочу. Тогда что я хочу вместо этого? Что я могу для этого сделать? Как я пойму, что я это получил? Где, когда и с кем я этого хочу? Какие эффекты это привлечет в мою жизнь? Какие ресурсы мне для этого понадобятся? Какие препятствия могут возникнуть у меня на пути? Какие первые шаги для достижения цели я уже могу сделать?

пора начинать делать заметки,  а то можно и забыть

        Если тебе не нравится мир, измени его, а если не можешь изменить, то измени
        свое отношение к миру.

По иронии судьбы, наша концепция
        реальности столь хрупка, что может развалиться за пару дней, если назойливая
        "реклама" на протяжении всего дня не будет нам постоянно напоминать, кто мы
        такие и что наша реальность по-прежнему здесь.

        Не играйте с масками реальности, пока не научились обращаться с
        реальностью масок.
        Р. А. Уилсон

The addict, the manic, and the lover are increasingly
filled with hopeful anticipation and are sensitive to anything that might give pleasure—
flowers and fresh air inspire them, and a slight but thoughtful gesture makes them delight in
all mankind. I call this process "globalization."
Globalization is intense when falling in love and is, I believe, one
of the main reasons that romantic love is such a powerful catalyst for
plastic change. Because the pleasure centers are firing so freely, the enamored person
falls in love not only with the beloved but with the
world and romanticizes his view of it. Because our brains are experiencing a surge of
dopamine, which consolidates plastic change, any pleasurable experiences and
associations we have in the initial state of love are thus wired into our brains.

это чертовски важно

For
addicts, moderation is impossible, and they must avoid the substance or activity
completely if they are to avoid addictive behaviors.

Psychologically, middle age is often an appealing time because, all else being equal, it
can be a relatively placid period compared with what has come before. Our bodies aren't
changing as they did in adolescence; we're more likely to have a solid sense of who we
are and be skilled at a career. We still regard ourselves as active, but we have a tendency
to deceive ourselves into thinking that we are learning as we were before. We rarely
engage in tasks in which we must focus our attention as closely as we did when we were
younger, trying to learn a new vocabulary or master new skills. Such activities as reading
the newspaper, practicing a profession of many years, and speaking our own language are mostly the replay of mastered skills, not learning. By the time we hit our seventies, we
may not have systematically engaged the systems in the brain that regulate plasticity for
fifty years.

The competitive nature of plasticity affects us all. There is an endless war of nerves going
on inside each of our brains. If we stop exercising our mental skills, we do not just forget
them: the brain map space for those skills is turned over to the skills we practice instead.
If you ever ask yourself, "How often must I practice French, or guitar, or math to keep on
top of it?" you are asking a question about competitive plasticity. You are asking how
frequently you must practice one activity to make sure its brain map space is not lost to another.

следовательно, ничего.

блин, ну что случилось.. либо А. забыла телефон дома, либо что-то пошло не так. Только что? эх, суггестивная чэ.

осенило

моя 2в прямо противоречит важному принципу объективизма - эгоизму. так так..

какова мораль встреч с несколькими девушками параллельно?

я вижу только один недостаток - я не хотел бы, чтобы такое провернули и со мной. хотя эта идея весьма слаба.. если девушка с встречается несколькими парнями одновременно, то парня у нее фактически нет. возможно, это просто свидание ради еды (динамо), или например чтобы сбежать от скуки вечером. плотские утехи слишком очевидны, тут и думать нечего.

и если та девушка, с которой я уже некоторое время встречаюсь, занята некоторое время (работа,учеба..), почему мне запрещено встречаться с кем-то еще. я же не женат на ней. все эти поигрушки в ближе-дальше осточертели мне до коликов. жаль, что наш город так мал. все же до смешного просто, а виноватым почему-то окажусь опять я.

эф-ок мало, но они есть, и теперь я знаю, как они выглядят. изумительно :). Гюгошка на курсах точно 1э, а вот что дальше, сказать трудно.. похоже на ЭЛ :(

все больше мне кажется, что сама жизнь подталкивает человека быть эгоистом.

OH!...thanks. So if 80 is the average, some studs last all the way to 160?
I can't speak for anyone else (at least from before Viagra was invented) but at an early age I realized that I was going to have to emphasize foreplay and getting my SO off first, before I got "serviced".

I discovered a while ago that if I let my mind wander a bit, I can last pretty much as long as I want (or as long as my decent-shape body can keep it up).
If I feel myself getting close, I just start thinking about Zerg openings and what kind of things they might come up against, and at what build times I can get more drones in.
Bam, no longer in the danger zone.

That would probably make my boyfriend come faster tbh.

[–]nukacola 169 очков170 очков171 очко 10 часов назад*

I'm gonna piggy pack on your comment, because i love all the points you bring up in it, and i'd like to add a few more about the friend zone itself and just why guys need help from it.



First off i'd sum up your point by saying to never attribute to malice what can just as easily be attributed to stupidity or ineptitude. The friend zone is like this, The guys aren't feeling malicious towards the women (at least not at first, and i'll get to when and how the friend zone turns into misogyny later on), they simply don't know how to go about getting what they want.



Probably the biggest misconception i see about the friend zone is that it's just about sex. Most guys i know don't get irreversibly fixated on a girl just because they want to have sex with her. In most cases of the friend zone they genuinely think this girl is the one. They aren't going to lengths of creepery for friends with benefits, they want a genuine romantic relationship, and all that it entails. The problem is, they don't really understand the difference between what attracts a person to a romantic relationship and what attracts a person to a friendship.



Next up, At this early awkward stage of life where the friendzone first occurs, a few portions of our culture actively encourage guys to enter the friend zone. Probably the biggest difference between men's and women's dating culture and why men end up in the friendzone so much more often then women is that culture tells women to wait for a man to find them, while culture tells men to go out and find a woman. For women, if you're interested in a man and he doesn't return your affection, that's not a huge deal, you just need to keep waiting for your prince charming (all kinds of problems arise if prince charming doesn't show within his designated period of time, but that's another issue). For men, you need to go out and find your true love, and there's a pretty big guide book for what to do once she is found. First and foremost, once you find your true love, you do not give up. Even if at first she absolutely hates you, if you just keep at it, eventually she will see that your motives are true. Through perseverance she will realize that the guy she's been looking for is you. Culture (or at least your parents) also tells you that all you have to do is be yourself and everyone will automatically love you.



What culture doesn't tell men is that they need to step back and evaluate both their own personality and the object of their desire's. That odds are, you're not only overestimating what you actually bring to a relationship, but you're also likely projecting all kinds of qualities onto this poor girl that she doesn't actually possess. In your head she's the perfect woman, but in reality you really don't know all that much about her and are filling in the blanks with what you hope is there. What culture doesn't tell us is that it should say if you just be yourself* (the version of yourself who is clean, motivated, and sociable) then a lot of people will give you a chance, and even then if you don't share enough interests or just aren't compatible it still wont work out sometimes, sorry kid that's life.



Now this is the point where the misogyny starts to sink in. You've tried everything that culture and your mother told you. You've found the woman of your dreams. You were yourself around her. You never gave up. You were always there for her, you were always kind to her. And yet still she doesn't return your affections. The story isn't reading like it should. Obviously something is wrong, and for the most part what the guy decides is wrong says a lot about what kind of person he becomes.



First, the guy who takes this experience and turns it into a positive. This guy decides that what's wrong with the narrative is that narrative itself. He realizes there's a difference between what people want in a friendship and what people want in a romance. He realizes he needs to be careful about projecting positive qualities onto women, because that just causes problems. He realizes that he isn't perfect, and that not everyone is going to fall head over heels in love with him, and that that's ok, because if they don't like his personality, then odds are he wouldn't like theirs.



The guy who becomes a foreveralone decides that what's wrong with this equation is him. He's not good enough, he's going to be alone forever. There is something inherently wrong with him, and because this one woman rejected him, all women forever will. This then becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. These are the guys who want an injection of manic pixie dream girl to get them out of their slump. What they really need is a friend to help them realize that they weren't the problem. Unfortunately once they decide that they aren't the problem, they often proceed to decide that women are the problem. On a side note, this is how most of the misogyny in r/seduction comes around. I personally think that r/seduction is a great tool for getting people out of their foreveralone slump; misogyny is an unfortunate side affect which needs to be exterminated from that community.



The guy who becomes a misogynist decides that what's wrong with the equation is the woman. Women are obviously too deeply flawed to appreciate the majesty that is you. Something at their core makes then say no to the carrot which is you, and go for the douchebag sticks instead. Once a guy is here, there's no helping him anymore. I feel a little sorry for them, but the only person who can help them is themselves.



So the actual friend zone is something which happens early in your romantic history, and usually only happens once or twice. If you encounter someone at this stage in the friend zone, please be kind and help them. Help them to see that what culture has been ramming down their throats since they were old enough to speak is wrong. Sit them down and tell them that there's nothing wrong with them or the girl. Otherwise they might just become another misogynist foreveralone, and we've got enough of those.

уже скучаю по А., а ведь виделись совсем вчера

[+]daonemanshow 1233 очка1234 очка1235 очков 11 часов назад (115 дочерних ветвей)There are more bacterial cells in your body than actual somatic (body) cells in your body.


[+]mazbat 862 очка863 очка864 очка 10 часов назад (62 дочерние ветви)And still, we're made up of mostly empty space.

[–]ShamelessKarmaWhore 1277 очков1278 очков1279 очков 10 часов назадSome more empty than others

Приснился сон, как я делаю доклад перед довольно большой аудиторией по объективизму, который был составлен почему-то под руководством Льготчикова и Ешкина. Под конец сна я уже более-менее стал его осознавать и решил в конце спросить что-то вроде "как объективизм повлиял на вашу жизнь" у преподов. Тут мое подсознание видимо выдало что-то вроде bsod'а и я проснулся.

В другом сне ловил рыжих котят в своей квартире. Вот что 3 месяца без синьки делают..