воскресенье, 22 декабря 2013 г.
понедельник, 9 декабря 2013 г.
четверг, 5 декабря 2013 г.
понедельник, 18 ноября 2013 г.
вторник, 22 октября 2013 г.
суббота, 19 октября 2013 г.
среда, 16 октября 2013 г.
среда, 25 сентября 2013 г.
вторник, 10 сентября 2013 г.
вторник, 6 августа 2013 г.
понедельник, 29 июля 2013 г.
Dinner or bar: If there's a waiter, you order only for yourself and then immediately & confidently ask "should I pay now or later for that?". Don't ask your date "hey what are you having?" until after you order for yourself because women will use that as an excuse to say that they thought you were offering to pay for their drink since you ordered for her.
Only bar: Go up to the bartender and directly order your own drink, pay first, then turn and ask what she is having.
Dinner or bar: ask the waiter to split the bill when you order initially (don't ask permission from the girl and don't skip a beat in your conversation. This should be normal and she shouldn't be surprised that she should actually pay half).
Dinner or bar: say "hey, you know those chili fries look amazing! How about I buy first round of drinks and the chili fries are on you?".
вторник, 23 июля 2013 г.
I'm leaving you on religious grounds. I've decided to become a Jew, and you're a fucking pig.
"Hey, your ex is kinda hot."
"Which one?"
"Me."
"They say there are plenty of fish in the sea, so I'm gonna go back to holding my rod until I catch something else."
Wanna have some breakup sex?
"Baby, do you know why I like having you around? me neither, I'm done."
Don't forget about Homer's classic line: "Dear Baby. Welcome to Dumpsville. Population: You." (This was well before the now cliche "welcome to _____-ville" lines that are just played out now.)
What's old, broken down and not going anywhere?
This relationship.
What's red, white and filled with salty water?
Your eyes in about 5 minutes from now.
How much does a polar bear weigh? Too much to be my girlfriend.
passes off letter ala elementary school "Do you wanna be my ex-girlfriend?" Circle yes or yes
I wish we were better strangers.
"Roses are red Violets are blue Garbage is dumped And so are you." Baby me and you are like doing pushups with your knees touching the ground.... This just isn't working out" "everyone with a boyfriend raise your hand, not so fast honey"
"It's not you, its my penis"
"Hey, your ex is kinda hot."
"Which one?"
"Me."
"They say there are plenty of fish in the sea, so I'm gonna go back to holding my rod until I catch something else."
Wanna have some breakup sex?
"Baby, do you know why I like having you around? me neither, I'm done."
Don't forget about Homer's classic line: "Dear Baby. Welcome to Dumpsville. Population: You." (This was well before the now cliche "welcome to _____-ville" lines that are just played out now.)
What's old, broken down and not going anywhere?
This relationship.
What's red, white and filled with salty water?
Your eyes in about 5 minutes from now.
How much does a polar bear weigh? Too much to be my girlfriend.
passes off letter ala elementary school "Do you wanna be my ex-girlfriend?" Circle yes or yes
I wish we were better strangers.
"Roses are red Violets are blue Garbage is dumped And so are you." Baby me and you are like doing pushups with your knees touching the ground.... This just isn't working out" "everyone with a boyfriend raise your hand, not so fast honey"
"It's not you, its my penis"
пятница, 19 июля 2013 г.
понедельник, 15 июля 2013 г.
"Very little scares me," said my new girlfriend "Great," I thought to myself, "She's going to be terrified when she sees my cock."
пятница, 12 июля 2013 г.
четверг, 11 июля 2013 г.
среда, 10 июля 2013 г.
четверг, 27 июня 2013 г.
вторник, 25 июня 2013 г.
суббота, 15 июня 2013 г.
пятница, 14 июня 2013 г.
вторник, 4 июня 2013 г.
еще одна шутка, которую некому рассказать
many yearsz ago da sigmund freud dude said, “i don’t know what does a woman want? What do womenz wantz?”
well, da gfbfmz put his thinking cap on
and FU FIGURED IT OU?TZ
figured it ourtz lzozlzozzozozoz
what womenz want is
alpha F*%$S
and
wait for it
wait for it
wait for it
wait
for
it
BEAT BUCKSZ!!! lzozozozo
это напоминает картинку из сумасшедшего дома - смех виснет в воздухе, поддержанный недоуменными взглядами, и воцаряется негромкая тишина, отголоски которой будут некоторое время отражаться от обитых мягким материалом стен камеры, после чего утихнут, и не останется совсем ничего, кроме, пожалуй, свербяще-привычного чувства пустоты и отчужденности.
many yearsz ago da sigmund freud dude said, “i don’t know what does a woman want? What do womenz wantz?”
well, da gfbfmz put his thinking cap on
and FU FIGURED IT OU?TZ
figured it ourtz lzozlzozzozozoz
what womenz want is
alpha F*%$S
and
wait for it
wait for it
wait for it
wait
for
it
BEAT BUCKSZ!!! lzozozozo
это напоминает картинку из сумасшедшего дома - смех виснет в воздухе, поддержанный недоуменными взглядами, и воцаряется негромкая тишина, отголоски которой будут некоторое время отражаться от обитых мягким материалом стен камеры, после чего утихнут, и не останется совсем ничего, кроме, пожалуй, свербяще-привычного чувства пустоты и отчужденности.
воскресенье, 2 июня 2013 г.
By all means pay excellent attention to building your muscle and getting
your life in great shape, but at some point, you just have to say fuck
it… and trust that your partner isn’t out to sneak some on the side as
soon as you stumble for a moment. Obviously choosing a partner well is
part of that decision matrix and having them on board with positive
relationship standards matters too. But at some point you have to trust.
http://marriedmansexlife.com/2013/05/why-you-need-the-blue-pill-too/
http://marriedmansexlife.com/2013/05/why-you-need-the-blue-pill-too/
среда, 29 мая 2013 г.
среда, 15 мая 2013 г.
- Вернёмся к нашим баранам! Так что же Зевс?
- Ах! Бедняга! - вздохнул Зорба. - Только я могу понять, как он страдал. Женщины, он любил их, это наверняка, но не так, как думаете вы, писаки! Совсем не так! Он их жалел. Этот бог понимал их страдания, ради них он жертвовал собой. Когда в каком-нибудь провинциальном захолустье ему попадалась старая дева, чахнувшая от желаний и сожалений, или хорошенькая молодая женщина, или пусть не очень хорошенькая, даже, может быть, страшила, которая не могла уснуть, если её муж отсутствовал, Зевс, этот добросердечный человек, крестился, переодевался, принимал облик того, о ком она думала, и входил в её комнату. Иногда он и не думал заниматься интрижкой. Частенько бог был просто не в силах, что и понятно: бедному козлу и тому трудно справиться со стадом коз! Иногда им овладевала лень, он был не в своей тарелке, ты, наверное, видел козла после того, как он покрыл нескольких козочек? Он брызгает слюной, глаза его тусклые и гноящиеся, он кашляет и едва держится на ногах. Так вот, он частенько бывал в таком жалком состоянии, бедный Зевс. Под утро он возвращался к себе, говоря: «Ах, Господи! Когда же я, наконец, смогу лечь и выспаться всласть. Я еле держусь на ногах!»
Вдруг он услышал плач: внизу, на земле женщина трясла свои простыни, она вышла на террасу почти совсем голая и вздохнула. Моего Зевса тотчас охватила жалость. «Беда, мне нужно спуститься на землю! - простонал он. - Женщина страдает, я должен её утешить!»
Он утешал до такой степени, что женщины его полностью опустошили. Всё в нём было переломано, его рвало, в конце концов, его разбил паралич, и он умер. Именно тогда на землю пришёл Христос, его наследник. Увидев, во что превратился старик, он воскликнул: «Берегись женщин!»
- Ах! Бедняга! - вздохнул Зорба. - Только я могу понять, как он страдал. Женщины, он любил их, это наверняка, но не так, как думаете вы, писаки! Совсем не так! Он их жалел. Этот бог понимал их страдания, ради них он жертвовал собой. Когда в каком-нибудь провинциальном захолустье ему попадалась старая дева, чахнувшая от желаний и сожалений, или хорошенькая молодая женщина, или пусть не очень хорошенькая, даже, может быть, страшила, которая не могла уснуть, если её муж отсутствовал, Зевс, этот добросердечный человек, крестился, переодевался, принимал облик того, о ком она думала, и входил в её комнату. Иногда он и не думал заниматься интрижкой. Частенько бог был просто не в силах, что и понятно: бедному козлу и тому трудно справиться со стадом коз! Иногда им овладевала лень, он был не в своей тарелке, ты, наверное, видел козла после того, как он покрыл нескольких козочек? Он брызгает слюной, глаза его тусклые и гноящиеся, он кашляет и едва держится на ногах. Так вот, он частенько бывал в таком жалком состоянии, бедный Зевс. Под утро он возвращался к себе, говоря: «Ах, Господи! Когда же я, наконец, смогу лечь и выспаться всласть. Я еле держусь на ногах!»
Вдруг он услышал плач: внизу, на земле женщина трясла свои простыни, она вышла на террасу почти совсем голая и вздохнула. Моего Зевса тотчас охватила жалость. «Беда, мне нужно спуститься на землю! - простонал он. - Женщина страдает, я должен её утешить!»
Он утешал до такой степени, что женщины его полностью опустошили. Всё в нём было переломано, его рвало, в конце концов, его разбил паралич, и он умер. Именно тогда на землю пришёл Христос, его наследник. Увидев, во что превратился старик, он воскликнул: «Берегись женщин!»
вторник, 14 мая 2013 г.
Look, one day I had gone to a little village. An old grandfather of ninety was busy planting an almond tree. 'What, grandad!' I exclaimed. 'Planting an almond tree?' And he, bent as he was, turned round and said: 'My son, I carry on as if I should never die.' I replied: 'And I carry on as if I was going to die any minute.' Which of us was right, boss?"
среда, 1 мая 2013 г.
вторник, 23 апреля 2013 г.
суббота, 30 марта 2013 г.
четверг, 21 марта 2013 г.
Субъективное понимание поведения собаки. Эта грубейшая ошибка, к сожалению, встречается у многих дрессировщиков, особенно у недостаточно подготовленных теоретически, слабо знающих физиологические основы поведения и дрессировки собак. Они очеловечивают собаку, обращаются с ней, как с существом, которое понимает человеческую речь, способно мыслить, сознательно действовать, руководствуясь желанием или нежеланием, представлениями и впечатлениями.
среда, 20 марта 2013 г.
ANYWAY, that all said, respond sexually even if you answer her question:
“Do you like BandX?”
“Ya, I have 3 of their songs in my sexxin playlist lol”
“What do you do?”
“Flirt with girls and get into trouble.”
“Lol no I mean for work”
“Oh I wouldn’t call it work, it’s actually pretty fun.”
“God you never give me a straight answer”
“Alright come over tonight and I’ll answer all your questions over breakfast.”
“Omg I’m not staying over all night”
“Oh good then I won’t have to make up a fake early-morning business meeting.”
“You’re terrible!! Lol”
“Terribly good in bed, yes, yes I am.”
Again it’s all sexual and making her react to me. Compare that with:
“What do you do?”
“I’m an Accountant at BoringPlace.”
“Oh that’s nice”
“So what do you do?”
“I’m a–”zzzzzzzz…..
“Do you like BandX?”
“Ya, I have 3 of their songs in my sexxin playlist lol”
“What do you do?”
“Flirt with girls and get into trouble.”
“Lol no I mean for work”
“Oh I wouldn’t call it work, it’s actually pretty fun.”
“God you never give me a straight answer”
“Alright come over tonight and I’ll answer all your questions over breakfast.”
“Omg I’m not staying over all night”
“Oh good then I won’t have to make up a fake early-morning business meeting.”
“You’re terrible!! Lol”
“Terribly good in bed, yes, yes I am.”
Again it’s all sexual and making her react to me. Compare that with:
“What do you do?”
“I’m an Accountant at BoringPlace.”
“Oh that’s nice”
“So what do you do?”
“I’m a–”zzzzzzzz…..
пятница, 15 марта 2013 г.
RSD Julien
@RSDJulien
There's more to life than picking up girls. Maybe. Possibly. In ways. I think.
вторник, 12 марта 2013 г.
"почему люди считают, что имеют право разрушить чужие жизни? уходя, обижая, не звоня, бросая на ветер слова… вы что, Боги, чтобы решать кому мучаться, а кому жить счастливо? если уж сказал «люблю», то будь добр любить до последнего вздоха. если сказал «обещаю», то разбейся, но сдержи обещание. если произнёс «не отпущу», то сделай всё, чтоб остаться. в противном случае, какой смысл жить, если каждое ваше слово равноценно нулю и не имеет значения?"
не понимаю, почему охлобыстин считает, что может говорить мне, на что я имею право, а на что - нет.
я имею право делать все. что не противозаконно. см. УК РФ.
не понимаю, почему охлобыстин считает, что может говорить мне, на что я имею право, а на что - нет.
я имею право делать все. что не противозаконно. см. УК РФ.
воскресенье, 10 марта 2013 г.
В первый раз я влюбился в первом классе, когда мне было 7 лет. Моя мама отвела меня на новогодний утренник и в хороводе рядом со мной была та девочка.. Я думал, она просто прекрасна. Мы держались за руки, пели песенку "Маленькой елочке холодно зимой" и были непринужденно, по-детски счастливы. Тогда я впервые понял, что такое любовь....
Мне нравится хорошая кухня (жаль, в нашем городе немного таких мест), красное вино и всякие интересные истории, которые я очень люблю рассказывать.Я люблю неординарные, захватывающие дух и надолго запоминающиеся события. Иногда это уха на костре под гитару... иногда это бокал мартини в моей руке, когда я танцую лунную походку через весь танцпол при полном параде.
По роду работы мне приходиться много путешествовать, и это может оттолкнуть от меня людей. Я легко смотрю на жизнь и поэтому не очень об этом беспокоюсь. Чем дольше ожидания, тем нежнее поцелуи.
Если ты была на том утреннике 20 лет назад и влюбилась в маленького кудрявого мальчика, которой держал тебя за руку.. напиши мне
Мне нравится хорошая кухня (жаль, в нашем городе немного таких мест), красное вино и всякие интересные истории, которые я очень люблю рассказывать.Я люблю неординарные, захватывающие дух и надолго запоминающиеся события. Иногда это уха на костре под гитару... иногда это бокал мартини в моей руке, когда я танцую лунную походку через весь танцпол при полном параде.
По роду работы мне приходиться много путешествовать, и это может оттолкнуть от меня людей. Я легко смотрю на жизнь и поэтому не очень об этом беспокоюсь. Чем дольше ожидания, тем нежнее поцелуи.
Если ты была на том утреннике 20 лет назад и влюбилась в маленького кудрявого мальчика, которой держал тебя за руку.. напиши мне
пятница, 8 марта 2013 г.
среда, 6 марта 2013 г.
вторник, 5 марта 2013 г.
понедельник, 4 марта 2013 г.
среда, 27 февраля 2013 г.
1. Cold reads
Be a psychic. Pretend to know something about her. (Or be very observant, and actually know something about her.) Commit these cold read openers to memory:
“I see you’re the type of person…”
“You look like the kind of girl…”
“I notice you…”
“There’s something about you that says…”
Focus on positive impressions, to get a girl talking about herself (and therefore projecting the good feelings she gets from her favorite subject — herself — onto you). Advanced cold reads use a compliment to embed a challenge to a girl’s self-conception. For instance:
“You seem really self-assured, but I can tell there are times when you struggle with doubt.”
Who doesn’t struggle with doubt? Cold read predictive power: validated. Pussy lips: blossomed.
2. Role-playing
Role-playing is basically the ability to have fun and jettison linearity for extemporaneity. (Two attributes in which most men run a deficit.) It’s fairly self-explanatory. You choose a character for yourself and for the girl (women love to be lead down these roads of whimsy), and you construct an alternate reality where the goal is to bring to life a typical female fantasy. Ideally, your role-playing characters will open the door to sexualized conversation.
Handy role-play scenarios you should learn and remember are:
Priest and wanton woman
Daddy and daughter
Boss and secretary
Photographer and model
Master and slave (save this one for the final stretch)
Professor and student
Concerned neighbor and runaway
Vice cop and prostitute
Seducer and seduced (yes, self-referential role-playing works)
The advantage of role-play is that you can be much bolder with your sexual innuendo than you could in normal conversation, because you have the plausible deniability of your character.
3. Storytelling
Similar to role-playing, except instead of making up a fun scenario involving two fantasy characters, you tell a story — embellished where necessary — involving real characters from your life. The object of storytelling is two-fold: to entrance a woman with the lure of an emotional jackpot, and to embed subtle cues of your high(er) value, aka DHVs.
Neil Strauss (“Style”) is widely considered to be the father of storytelling as a pick-up tactic. The guy writes for a living, so that would make sense. He categorizes storytelling into four types:
Implicit qualification stories
These are the stories that reveal certain positive and exciting attributes about yourself that you really want the girl listening to you to possess. So, for instance, these stories will present you as a rebel, a rule-breaker, and an impulsive lover of life with a short time horizon. The girl hears this, and feels a subconscious need to qualify herself as possessing those same exciting traits.
Self-promotion stories
You talk about yourself and your pursuits, accomplishments, dreams, whatever, but you do it with passionate engagement rather than arid laundry listing. Did you start a business with nothing but gumption and a notepad full of stray ideas? Talk about that, but describe the feelings that coursed through you every step of the way. You want her to feel like she was right there with you, reliving the excitement.
Sex-themed stories
If it’s obvious you are telling a story from your past involving third parties, you can get away with some juicy sex talk early on that you couldn’t get away with if the subject wasn’t nicely wrapped in a one degree removed package. Example: That time you encouraged your ex to do an impromptu pole dance, complete with imaginary pole, for tickets to a sold-out show.
Metaphorical stories
These can be made up or extracted from your life, but the idea is to highlight a moral quandary or a life lesson, which will further move discussion and encourage the girl’s participation. Mystery’s ant farm story is a classic of the genre.
The two key requirements of any story that you must learn are:
- The hook line. Lead a girl into your story with an innocuous question. Ex: “Have you ever been to [place X]?”
- Descriptive language. Show, don’t tell. You didn’t bike down that French boulevard with your ex, you swerved dangerously close to passing Parisians and rumbled chaotically over stony paths, as the aromas of warm bread and hyacinth filled your nose.
4. Qualification
Unlike almost every other man out there, you are qualifying her to see if she meets your strict standards for a pleasing woman worthy of your time and company. Ex: “Girls who are passionate and uninhibited are so rare nowadays. Everyone’s cautious, trying not to seem weird. What’s the craziest thing you’ve done recently?”
She will bite (they almost always do if your pick-up progression has been congruent with her escalating mood), and her emotional systems will invariably engage. Whatever you do, don’t show too much interest in her answer; you want her to impress you, and that takes work.
Careful, don’t qualify too early. You will appear judgmental, and that will close off a woman. Wait for her to show some signs of interest, then qualify her when her outer defenses are down.
5. Misinterpretation of her words as sexual intent
This is the most fun of the chick crack tactics, because it’s so childish and yet so effective at fast tracking the interaction to a coital conclusion. Ex:
Girl: “How about we dance? I like this song.”
You: “Riiiiight. I get it. [air quote] Daaaance. Rule #1 for dancing: My butt is a public work of art. That means, you can admire, but no touching. Arms up top, ok?”
Girl: “Your shirt is soooo gay.”
You: “Are you always thinking about gay sex? Perv?”
Girl: “I just got back from Rome.”
You: “Little soon for sex stories, doncha think?”
Tyler D has a version of this called “sexual predator game”, where you playfully assume everything she says or does is to get you in the sack. Ex: “You want me to get you a drink? No way. I know where that leads. Liquor me up, get my defenses down, and next thing I know you’ve tied me to the bed posts. Forget it, fatal attraction.”
Sexual misinterpretation is a riskier technique than the other ones, especially if done too early, because the girl could feel creeped out if she isn’t yet intrigued by your charms. Save this for later, after a breezy rapport is established.
Be a psychic. Pretend to know something about her. (Or be very observant, and actually know something about her.) Commit these cold read openers to memory:
“I see you’re the type of person…”
“You look like the kind of girl…”
“I notice you…”
“There’s something about you that says…”
Focus on positive impressions, to get a girl talking about herself (and therefore projecting the good feelings she gets from her favorite subject — herself — onto you). Advanced cold reads use a compliment to embed a challenge to a girl’s self-conception. For instance:
“You seem really self-assured, but I can tell there are times when you struggle with doubt.”
Who doesn’t struggle with doubt? Cold read predictive power: validated. Pussy lips: blossomed.
2. Role-playing
Role-playing is basically the ability to have fun and jettison linearity for extemporaneity. (Two attributes in which most men run a deficit.) It’s fairly self-explanatory. You choose a character for yourself and for the girl (women love to be lead down these roads of whimsy), and you construct an alternate reality where the goal is to bring to life a typical female fantasy. Ideally, your role-playing characters will open the door to sexualized conversation.
Handy role-play scenarios you should learn and remember are:
Priest and wanton woman
Daddy and daughter
Boss and secretary
Photographer and model
Master and slave (save this one for the final stretch)
Professor and student
Concerned neighbor and runaway
Vice cop and prostitute
Seducer and seduced (yes, self-referential role-playing works)
The advantage of role-play is that you can be much bolder with your sexual innuendo than you could in normal conversation, because you have the plausible deniability of your character.
3. Storytelling
Similar to role-playing, except instead of making up a fun scenario involving two fantasy characters, you tell a story — embellished where necessary — involving real characters from your life. The object of storytelling is two-fold: to entrance a woman with the lure of an emotional jackpot, and to embed subtle cues of your high(er) value, aka DHVs.
Neil Strauss (“Style”) is widely considered to be the father of storytelling as a pick-up tactic. The guy writes for a living, so that would make sense. He categorizes storytelling into four types:
Implicit qualification stories
These are the stories that reveal certain positive and exciting attributes about yourself that you really want the girl listening to you to possess. So, for instance, these stories will present you as a rebel, a rule-breaker, and an impulsive lover of life with a short time horizon. The girl hears this, and feels a subconscious need to qualify herself as possessing those same exciting traits.
Self-promotion stories
You talk about yourself and your pursuits, accomplishments, dreams, whatever, but you do it with passionate engagement rather than arid laundry listing. Did you start a business with nothing but gumption and a notepad full of stray ideas? Talk about that, but describe the feelings that coursed through you every step of the way. You want her to feel like she was right there with you, reliving the excitement.
Sex-themed stories
If it’s obvious you are telling a story from your past involving third parties, you can get away with some juicy sex talk early on that you couldn’t get away with if the subject wasn’t nicely wrapped in a one degree removed package. Example: That time you encouraged your ex to do an impromptu pole dance, complete with imaginary pole, for tickets to a sold-out show.
Metaphorical stories
These can be made up or extracted from your life, but the idea is to highlight a moral quandary or a life lesson, which will further move discussion and encourage the girl’s participation. Mystery’s ant farm story is a classic of the genre.
The two key requirements of any story that you must learn are:
- The hook line. Lead a girl into your story with an innocuous question. Ex: “Have you ever been to [place X]?”
- Descriptive language. Show, don’t tell. You didn’t bike down that French boulevard with your ex, you swerved dangerously close to passing Parisians and rumbled chaotically over stony paths, as the aromas of warm bread and hyacinth filled your nose.
4. Qualification
Unlike almost every other man out there, you are qualifying her to see if she meets your strict standards for a pleasing woman worthy of your time and company. Ex: “Girls who are passionate and uninhibited are so rare nowadays. Everyone’s cautious, trying not to seem weird. What’s the craziest thing you’ve done recently?”
She will bite (they almost always do if your pick-up progression has been congruent with her escalating mood), and her emotional systems will invariably engage. Whatever you do, don’t show too much interest in her answer; you want her to impress you, and that takes work.
Careful, don’t qualify too early. You will appear judgmental, and that will close off a woman. Wait for her to show some signs of interest, then qualify her when her outer defenses are down.
5. Misinterpretation of her words as sexual intent
This is the most fun of the chick crack tactics, because it’s so childish and yet so effective at fast tracking the interaction to a coital conclusion. Ex:
Girl: “How about we dance? I like this song.”
You: “Riiiiight. I get it. [air quote] Daaaance. Rule #1 for dancing: My butt is a public work of art. That means, you can admire, but no touching. Arms up top, ok?”
Girl: “Your shirt is soooo gay.”
You: “Are you always thinking about gay sex? Perv?”
Girl: “I just got back from Rome.”
You: “Little soon for sex stories, doncha think?”
Tyler D has a version of this called “sexual predator game”, where you playfully assume everything she says or does is to get you in the sack. Ex: “You want me to get you a drink? No way. I know where that leads. Liquor me up, get my defenses down, and next thing I know you’ve tied me to the bed posts. Forget it, fatal attraction.”
Sexual misinterpretation is a riskier technique than the other ones, especially if done too early, because the girl could feel creeped out if she isn’t yet intrigued by your charms. Save this for later, after a breezy rapport is established.
вторник, 26 февраля 2013 г.
This clip of a woman getting utterly busted for cheating live on
radio is a good summary of female reaction when confronted with unsavory
facts.
1. Denial when she is first confronted. .
2. Denial is not working. The hamster wheel starts spinning. She has to figure a way out of the mess. She knows she’s busted. Hesitation, defensiveness, dissembling, lame attempts at explanation.
3. Then she recasts it as having made “mistakes”. Atttempted reframe. The hamster has settled on her explanation.
4. Her explanation is not working. She resorts to crying. This serves two purposes: to show submission (don’t hit me, I’m a crying girl!) and to garner sympathy (how can you be so mean to me!).
5. Crying’s not working. She turns to shaming “What kind of people are you?! I hate you!”
1. Denial when she is first confronted. .
2. Denial is not working. The hamster wheel starts spinning. She has to figure a way out of the mess. She knows she’s busted. Hesitation, defensiveness, dissembling, lame attempts at explanation.
3. Then she recasts it as having made “mistakes”. Atttempted reframe. The hamster has settled on her explanation.
4. Her explanation is not working. She resorts to crying. This serves two purposes: to show submission (don’t hit me, I’m a crying girl!) and to garner sympathy (how can you be so mean to me!).
5. Crying’s not working. She turns to shaming “What kind of people are you?! I hate you!”
воскресенье, 24 февраля 2013 г.
Most girls are uncomfortable being scheduled on a weekly basis, like a haircut. She was pushing for more.
Jason had anticipated this, because it was a battle he had fought many times before. Boy meets
girl; boy and girl sleep together; boy dodges pressure for exclusivity for as long as he can before girl
gives up and repeats the cycle with someone new. The cycle lasted anywhere from a month to a year,
depending on the girl, and if there was a way to avoid it, Jason hadn’t found it yet. The solution, as he
saw it, was to keep a constant mass of girls in his life, rotating them in and out of his bed as their cycles of infatuation, hope, and disillusionment waxed and waned. He sent two text messages, but neither were to Emily.
Jason had anticipated this, because it was a battle he had fought many times before. Boy meets
girl; boy and girl sleep together; boy dodges pressure for exclusivity for as long as he can before girl
gives up and repeats the cycle with someone new. The cycle lasted anywhere from a month to a year,
depending on the girl, and if there was a way to avoid it, Jason hadn’t found it yet. The solution, as he
saw it, was to keep a constant mass of girls in his life, rotating them in and out of his bed as their cycles of infatuation, hope, and disillusionment waxed and waned. He sent two text messages, but neither were to Emily.
пятница, 22 февраля 2013 г.
дневниковая запись
осталось 2.5 дня и 5 подходов
перевел теорию тарелок. получается быстро, но теперь надо работать над качеством.
пора заводить третий журнал для пикап-заметок. после того, как доделаю подходы
перевел теорию тарелок. получается быстро, но теперь надо работать над качеством.
пора заводить третий журнал для пикап-заметок. после того, как доделаю подходы
четверг, 21 февраля 2013 г.
once upon a time,
mothers told their duaghterz
the fiary tale
of kissing the frog
and seing it beocme a prince
as women gained happiness
from being loyal to a good man
in a devoutly
judeo christan context
but
today’s vicious buttocked motherz teach
their duaghterz
the art of
forniaatcyoozmzm and churchian BJs
to take tae take take
demand demand demand demand
sue sue sue sue
eat eat eat eta eat
buttehxt butthetx butthext butthext
persecutre persecute persecute
suse sue sue sue
bitch btch bitch bitch
deconstruc deconstruc deconstruct
butetx butthext butthext
debase debase dabse debase
debauch debauch debauch debauch
demand demand dmeansd demand
dishonor dishono dishonor dishonor
take take take take
butthext demand debase dbeuach
take bitch moan sue compalin
and then when they hit thirty
the innocent little princess asks two questions:
1. “Where have all the good menz gonez?”
2. “Why is my butt sore?”
mothers told their duaghterz
the fiary tale
of kissing the frog
and seing it beocme a prince
as women gained happiness
from being loyal to a good man
in a devoutly
judeo christan context
but
today’s vicious buttocked motherz teach
their duaghterz
the art of
forniaatcyoozmzm and churchian BJs
to take tae take take
demand demand demand demand
sue sue sue sue
eat eat eat eta eat
buttehxt butthetx butthext butthext
persecutre persecute persecute
suse sue sue sue
bitch btch bitch bitch
deconstruc deconstruc deconstruct
butetx butthext butthext
debase debase dabse debase
debauch debauch debauch debauch
demand demand dmeansd demand
dishonor dishono dishonor dishonor
take take take take
butthext demand debase dbeuach
take bitch moan sue compalin
and then when they hit thirty
the innocent little princess asks two questions:
1. “Where have all the good menz gonez?”
2. “Why is my butt sore?”
вторник, 19 февраля 2013 г.
понедельник, 18 февраля 2013 г.
суббота, 16 февраля 2013 г.
Вот хорошо продуманный образ той девушки, в знакомстве с которой я заинтересован… Рост 165 см. или выше, но не более 180 (я не против смотреть тебе в глаза, находясь на одном уровне, но никогда не буду смотреть на тебя снизу вверх); живет на таком расстоянии от меня, чтобы добраться через 10 минут после моего звонка; искренне страстная; достаточно умна, чтобы мне не было с тобой скучно; сексуально доступна (предпочительно – ненасытная) и ОЧЕНЬ привлекательная – я имею в виду уровень Джессики Альбы или Эммы Уотсон. Девушкам с процентом жира > 8 просьба не беспокоиться.
Ориентирована на создание семьи, но только после 30-33 лет. Открыта к спонтанному сексу (например, на природе во время пикника или ЖМЖ-сюрприз с твоей горячей подружкой после второго мартини). Хочу встретить такую девушку, которая знает, что надо вести себя тихо, когда Я иду с друзьями в бильярдную.
Должна хотеть завести детей только после 33, и только после того, как докажет, что способна быть хорошей матерью и верной женой. Наличие хороших манер обязательно, как и понимание того, что лучшим подарком для меня является выражение ее желания заняться сексом подобно диким животным.
Такая девушка будет уважать мои решения и никогда их не оспаривать. Мне не интересны женщины старше 31 года (так как это фактически срок годности), девушкам с манией шопинга или невыплаченными кредитами > 10к также не следует беспокоиться, так как я не планирую менять свой стиль жизни и хочу когда-нибудь отправить своих детей в престижный ВУЗ. Мне очень нравятся рыженькие, блондинки, брюнетки.. в принципе, любая девушка, подходящая под мои требования. Я не испытываю ни малейшего влечения к девушке, у которой лишь пара лишних килограммов, пусть даже у нее самый поэтический внутренний мир в этой вселенной.
Надеюсь на скорую встречу. Принц.
Ориентирована на создание семьи, но только после 30-33 лет. Открыта к спонтанному сексу (например, на природе во время пикника или ЖМЖ-сюрприз с твоей горячей подружкой после второго мартини). Хочу встретить такую девушку, которая знает, что надо вести себя тихо, когда Я иду с друзьями в бильярдную.
Должна хотеть завести детей только после 33, и только после того, как докажет, что способна быть хорошей матерью и верной женой. Наличие хороших манер обязательно, как и понимание того, что лучшим подарком для меня является выражение ее желания заняться сексом подобно диким животным.
Такая девушка будет уважать мои решения и никогда их не оспаривать. Мне не интересны женщины старше 31 года (так как это фактически срок годности), девушкам с манией шопинга или невыплаченными кредитами > 10к также не следует беспокоиться, так как я не планирую менять свой стиль жизни и хочу когда-нибудь отправить своих детей в престижный ВУЗ. Мне очень нравятся рыженькие, блондинки, брюнетки.. в принципе, любая девушка, подходящая под мои требования. Я не испытываю ни малейшего влечения к девушке, у которой лишь пара лишних килограммов, пусть даже у нее самый поэтический внутренний мир в этой вселенной.
Надеюсь на скорую встречу. Принц.
воскресенье, 10 февраля 2013 г.
Manly Asshole
I sent the wrong texts to the wrong
people. Now my wife thinks that I'm going to fuck her and my girlfriend
thinks that I have to work late.
Amen. You either learn how to game women or you don’t. You either want
to game women or you don’t. If you fail at gaming women or don’t want to
game women, then consider prostitution with an adult female who will
consent to sex for pay. Sugar babies are whores too. You can also rely
on masturbation or go completely without sex. Remember one thing.
There’s nothing a woman can give you that you would want or need which a
man couldn’t do just as a well and better except for one and perhaps
two or three things if you want the second thing or third thing if you
are a strait heterosexual man. The first is sex. The second is your own
biological children. The third is erotic or romantic love. These are the
only three things a woman has to offer a heterosexual man which another
man can not give because he is completely and utterly unable to do so.
Again, remember everything else can be done just as well if not better
by a man. If anyone disagrees, then call me a misogynist and truly prove
me wrong—-FLAME AWAY!!!
пятница, 8 февраля 2013 г.
четверг, 7 февраля 2013 г.
Do you remember the shy kid who gets the girl in teen movies? Sixteen Candles is a classic example.
The real world is different – the main character in that movie would never get a girlfriend at his high
school. Every time you see a TV show or movie in which a male character asks a woman “so… um…
would you like to… you know… go out with me on Saturday?” and she says yes, remind yourself that
this is fiction. In real life, being shy and nervous – no matter how cute or how much the tortured artist
you think you are being – is a terrible way to make a woman attracted to you.
The real world is different – the main character in that movie would never get a girlfriend at his high
school. Every time you see a TV show or movie in which a male character asks a woman “so… um…
would you like to… you know… go out with me on Saturday?” and she says yes, remind yourself that
this is fiction. In real life, being shy and nervous – no matter how cute or how much the tortured artist
you think you are being – is a terrible way to make a woman attracted to you.
Try this as an experiment. Ask a woman what a man should do to impress her. She’ll probably respond with some combination of taking her to a nice dinner, maybe a walk on the beach, maybe flowers, a few compliments, really listening to her, and so on. Now try doing that. When you come home alone after a peck on the cheek and the “let’s just be friends” talk, don’t say I didn’t warn you.
среда, 6 февраля 2013 г.
1-2 will
Человек , на которого реагирует большинство окружающих , сам при этом не реагируя, имеет
самую высокую ценность и притягивает к себе внимание. На бессознательном уровне , женщины чувствуют это и соответственно реагируют на него, момент за моментом. Женщины откликаются на подобное поведение на эмоциональном уровне. Это притягивает их как магнит. Они чувствуют влечение по отношению к этому человеку , вне зависимости от каких то поверхностных вещей. Это именно то , как работает влечение. Всё это мы можем наблюдать постоянно : привлекательные плохие парни , нахальные парни , загадочные парни с особой аурой . Своим поведением они демонстрируют безразличие , и не «парятся» что о них подумают другие. Что является общим у всех этих парней , это то , что они не реагируют на других людей , а наоборот , есть что то в их личностях , что заставляет других людей реагировать на них. Несмотря на социальный статус , они взаимодействуют с женщинами на эмоциональном уровне. Для них не необходимости соответствовать поверхностным социальным стандартам общества , для того что бы чувствовать уверенность в себе. Они делают это базируясь исключительно на собственной личности. Вот что является базовой ценностью.
самую высокую ценность и притягивает к себе внимание. На бессознательном уровне , женщины чувствуют это и соответственно реагируют на него, момент за моментом. Женщины откликаются на подобное поведение на эмоциональном уровне. Это притягивает их как магнит. Они чувствуют влечение по отношению к этому человеку , вне зависимости от каких то поверхностных вещей. Это именно то , как работает влечение. Всё это мы можем наблюдать постоянно : привлекательные плохие парни , нахальные парни , загадочные парни с особой аурой . Своим поведением они демонстрируют безразличие , и не «парятся» что о них подумают другие. Что является общим у всех этих парней , это то , что они не реагируют на других людей , а наоборот , есть что то в их личностях , что заставляет других людей реагировать на них. Несмотря на социальный статус , они взаимодействуют с женщинами на эмоциональном уровне. Для них не необходимости соответствовать поверхностным социальным стандартам общества , для того что бы чувствовать уверенность в себе. Они делают это базируясь исключительно на собственной личности. Вот что является базовой ценностью.
вторник, 5 февраля 2013 г.
I get to the bar and find out that Monday is Dollar Drink Night at the El Rio. Good to know. I order a vodka tonic, give the girl behind the bar two dollars and settle in. I bring the drink to my lips and take my first sip, then immediately choke. Calling it "strong" would be an understatement. I decide I like this place very much.
воскресенье, 3 февраля 2013 г.
понедельник, 28 января 2013 г.
Men are always striving to climb upwards. Femininity is horizontal:
radiating out warmth and nurturing toward surrounding others, and
producing new others to warm and nurture. Masculinity is vertical. It’s
aiming upwards, towards an ideal to be achieved in a man’s self. And
women are always screaming at us to get down off the damned ladder
before we break our necks. (It has to be this way. Always has been and
always will be.)
http://www.counter-currents.com/2012/01/fight-club-as-holy-writ/
http://www.counter-currents.com/2012/01/fight-club-as-holy-writ/
воскресенье, 20 января 2013 г.
The Love Test: A Routine
June 2, 2009 by CH
Since I’m feeling generous I will share it with everyone here. Virginal routines that haven’t yet gone mainstream are worth their words in gold, so get on your knees and kiss my triskelion ring for this gift I give you. All I ask is that you don’t use the routine on girls if you happen to be in St Louis, Soweto, Prague, Warsaw, Toronto, or the Australian outback. It’s bad form to cross the streams.
As with all psychological routines designed to elecit an emotionally bonding reaction in a girl and to demonstrate your perspicacity, the way to segue into the love test without sounding a false note is to say “I can tell you something about yourself with a simple game”. Most girls, as long as you have built attraction with them, will bite at this delicious bait.
If you are a girl reading this post who remains unviolated by my tremendous manhood, you may want to give yourself this test before reading the answers. Just read the italicized parts and cover up the answers underneath with your hand.
The Love Test
You will ask the girl a series of six questions within a story in which she is presented with two choices as an answer for each question. She must choose one or the other, and she has to go with her gut. Remind her to answer quickly and to avoid lingering over a choice. At the end of the test, you will tell her what her answers reveal about herself.
“You have a lover, a man who is everything to you. He lives apart from you, but within walking distance. One day you decide to visit him. You have two paths you can take to get to his home. One is a short but boring path that will get you there quickly. The other is a long but scenic path with many beautiful sites that will take longer. Which do you take?”
If she answers “short”, this means she falls in love quickly. She is passionate and impulsive.
If she answers “long”, this means she takes a while to fall in love. She is circumspect and enjoys the buildup to falling in love.
“Along the path you come across rose bushes. The roses come in two colors — red and white. You decide you want to pick some roses for your lover. You are allowed to pick twenty roses of any combination of red or white. How many red and how many white roses do you pick?”
Red roses symbolize selflessness. A woman who picks more red than white roses is a giver in a relationship.
White roses symbolize selfishness. A woman who picks more white than red roses is a taker in a relationship.
[Editor's note: You'd probably not be surprised how many women pick more white than red roses. This part of the test is a great screening mechanism for LTR material.]
“You arrive at your lover’s home and knock on the door. A family member opens the door. Do you ask to be let in so you can go to his room to see him, or do you ask the family member to bring him to the door?”
If she answers “ask to be let in”, she does not let arguments simmer in a relationship. She prefers having it out.
If she answers “bring him to the door”, she lets arguments slide and buries her anger. She avoids conflict and drama.
“You go up to his bedroom and he is not there. You want to leave the roses in his room. Do you leave them on his windowsill or on his bed?”
If she answers “windowsill”, she prefers more casual relationships where she doesn’t feel a need to see her lover very often.
If she answers “bed”, she prefers intense relationships where she sees her lover a lot.
[Editor's note: Windowsill girls are cheap dates.]
“Your lover returns and you two spend the night together making sweet sweet sex. You both fall asleep and in the morning you wake up first. You lean over to his side of the bed to see if he is awake. Is he awake or still sleeping?”
If she answers “awake”, she is the type of girl who will try to change her man into her image of the perfect boyfriend.
If she answers “asleep”, she loves her man just the way he is, flaws and all.
“It’s the end of the day and time for you to say goodbye to your lover and go home. As before, you are presented with two paths to get home — a long but scenic path and a short but boring path. Which path do you take?”
If she answers “long”, she takes a long time to fall out of love. Breakups are hard on her. She is given to nostalgia and reminiscence. She is a natural romantic.
If she answers “short”, she falls out of love quickly. Breakups are short, sharp affairs that she gets over in no time and with little handwringing. She is a natural slut.
The cube game is an involved routine to learn and execute but one
that most girls enjoy. I wait until the first date to do it because
it takes a while to complete and you need an environment where
there are few distractions.
Introduce it by saying, "Hey let's play a game. I'm going to ask
you a few questions and your answers will tell me all I need to
know about you." Tell her to relax before you begin, then start. As
you read the routine, pretend I'm doing it on you so you can try to
analyze your answers afterwards.
"Imagine yourself in the middle of the desert. It's a really big
desert and you are the only person there." She may close her eyes
to better imagine this scene. "Now in the middle of this desert,
there is a cube. Describe this cube to me, however you imagine it
to be."
Ask about its size, its relation to the desert (on the floor,
floating in the air, etc.), and what material it's made out of.
Urge her to be as detailed as possible, and only continue when she
is completely done answering.
"In addition to the cube, there is a ladder. Where is this ladder
in relation to the cube?" Ask what material it is made out of and
how many rungs it has.
"Next up is a horse. Where is the horse in relation to the cube and
the ladder?" Ask her about the size, type, and color of the horse.
"Now imagine flowers. Where are they in relation to the cube,
ladder, and horse?" Ask her about the quantity, color, and type of
flowers. Always give her time to provide rich details to get her
imagination going.
"Finally, there is a storm in the horizon. Is the storm coming
closer to you, going away, or staying still?" Then tell her that
the game is finished and that her answers are very interesting.
Feel free to hype up the upcoming analysis by saying you learned
something about her that you didn't expect.
When it comes to the analysis, all you have to know is that the
cube is a representation of her, the ladder is her friends and
family, the horse is her lover, the flowers are her future
children, and the storm is a big problem. With a general idea of
what each one means, and your understanding of the girl, you will
make up an analysis that is both believable and accurate.
Generally, a large cube means her ego is large. A small cube means
insecurity, but keep the analysis positive in this case by saying
she is timid or not in possession of a large ego. The material of
the cube displays strength. If her cube material is strong and
solid instead of hollow, this means she is a strong person capable
of handling problems without collapsing, and so on. A soft cube and
she is hesitant and needs a lot of assurances before starting a new
task.
The ladder is her support circle. The closer her ladder is to the
cube, the more she relies on her friends and family. If the ladder
leans on her cube, she relies on them as much as they do. If the
ladder is on top of her cube, her circle may be smothering her. If
it's far away, she doesn't rely on them much. Rungs on a ladder say
how many people are close to her life. A strong ladder material
says she can count on her family and friends more than if it was
made with weaker material.
The horse size says whether she wants a dominant or subordinate
male. A large horse means she wants to be led. A pretty horse like
a pony means she wants a metrosexual man. A small horse means she
wants to dominate her partner. The distance between the horse and
the cube and ladder says how close her lover will be to her life. A
horse in a cage (or otherwise immobilized) means she wants to
destroy you.
The number of flowers says how many children she wants to have. The
closer they are to her lover (the horse) means the father will be
close to the children. I'm not sure what flower type is but you can
make it up to mean what type of gender she prefers or what she
wants her kids to be when they grow up. Finally, the storm's
movement signifies if a problem is coming or going towards her--if
she has to soon deal with something important or not.
Let's do a sample analysis with answers that will be pretty
typical.
Say her cube is about four feet tall, made out of solid wood, and
slightly elevated off the ground. Her ladder is laying on top of
the cube, with ten rungs and made out of metal. There is a large,
black horse that is making circles around the cube and ladder and
there are three yellow dandelions very close by. Finally, she
envisions a storm that is neither coming nor going.
For example if I knew that she is an artsy, independent type, here
is the analysis I would give:
"The cube is a representation of you. Your cube is large, which
means you have a healthy ego and a high sense of self-worth. You
like to keep your head up. The cube is elevated off the ground so
that tells me you're a dreamer. You think a lot and tend to lean
towards the creative side of things instead of the analytical. Wood
is a strong material, meaning you see yourself as strong as well.
It cannot be easily broken. For instance the cube could be hollow
but it's not.
"The fact that your ladder is on top of you means that others rely
on you for support and advice more than you rely on them. So
sometimes you feel smothered. Each rung represents a person who you
are close to, so you have a lot of people that place their trust in
you. The ladder is made out of metal, a strong material, which says
your support network is strong and dependable.
"The horse is your lover. Its large size means you want to be led,
and maybe even dominated. But the horse is not too close to the
cube and ladder, so this means you want space from your lover as
well.
"The three flowers means you want a small family. Yellow is a
neutral color so you imagine at least one boy and one girl. They
are close to the cube and ladder which is good because children
should be close to you and your friends and family. It's hard to
tell from your answers where you lover fits in.
"Finally, the storm represents a problem. It's neither going nor
coming, which means that there may be an issue you have that is
staying with you indefinitely."
Because the cube game is involved, it is best you practice it on at
least five other people before you do it on a date. If you get lost
in your analysis, just shovel back what you already know about her
without being too obvious about it.
For instance if the guy friend you are doing it on for practice is
an alpha male type, tell him his cube says he feels confident with
his decision making and likes to lead. If your date is a really
insecure girl, tell her that she is sometimes filled with doubt and
goes through periods of uncertainty.
I've never had a girl who didn't eat up my cube analysis and it's
not because I was necessarily right, but because girls love playing
games that supposedly reveal their true nature. (By the time you do
the cube on her, she has done a hundred of those multiple-choice
personality quizzes.) Even if you are wrong, she will love telling
you how and why, so in the process you really do learn more about
her.
After you're done giving her analysis, feel free to tell her what
your answers to the cube were when your friend (i.e. me) did it on
you. I guarantee you she'll be curious to hear it.
The cube game takes a lot of practice and homework but it's worth
it because it gives you experience with cold reading, a method of
spitting vague generalities that on the surface seem very personal
and accurate. Generally, the more complicated a routine, the bigger
payoff it has if you execute it correctly.
Before I knew how attraction really worked, I'd approach a girl and
talk about boring topics such as work or her favorite movies, and
then she would politely excuse herself from the conversation only a
couple minutes into it. But now I know better. When you talk about
more interesting topics, she sees you as more INTERESTING. Duh,
right? With a couple additional techniques, the "interesting" is
turned into strong attraction.
Once attraction is built you can get her number and take her on a
date later, or go for the one night stand (my preferred method). I
teach you how to do all this in my book Bang, with very specific
steps and guidelines. And of course my book tells you how to keep a
conversation going, whether you just met her or are on a date.
Private Man
@man_private
Dating 2.0: It's better to simply understand the rules
than it is to search desperately and unsuccessfully for the exceptions.
среда, 16 января 2013 г.
oh roosh
No but seriously, no playing around, she’s so ugly that when she wants
to practice birth control, all she has to do is turn on the light.
вторник, 15 января 2013 г.
суббота, 12 января 2013 г.
четверг, 10 января 2013 г.
There is no “One”. There is no soulmate. One is as good as another. None are worth sacrificing for, none are even worth your time more than to convince them to fuck you. They will never love you as you love them. Their love is opportunistic and conditional. And most of all, it is temporary until that better deal comes along. She will leave you bleeding on the side of the road if suits her hypergamy. If the next woman isn’t better than the one you left, then the one after that will be. They are all the same under the hood. The only reason you think you value them is that you have fallen for the scarcity model.
среда, 9 января 2013 г.
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I have to concur greatly with this post. I have felt that the whole Mid-Life Crisis thing was bullshit, at least from the explanation that is so generally accepted by both, men and most especially, by women.
I read an article some years back where the author was saying that men would experience something in mid-life, a profound depression, possibly due to first realizations of mortality, that you can begin to actually sense the finite nature of life, that you can actually visualize yourself dying. And he ended the article with a warning to men approaching this age “The black dog is on your trail.” Wikipedia says, “the Black Dog is regarded as a ‘portent of death.’” I think all that is a little strong. But it shows the societal buy in to the whole idea of Mid Life Crisis.
But this post by Rollo is as good an explanation and as strong a factor as any fear of death or need to recapture youth, to show you still have it. The notion of the Mid Life Crisis is another Femcentric rationalization exercise to shame you into getting back in line. You need to Man Up and Be A Man.
I get into spats from time to time with my ex-wife, usually in emails. I had one this week. There hasn’t been one in while and this was the first one since I got extremely Red Pill aware and I struck for the jugular in retaliation. The response I got back was so typical in Female Shaming. At first I reacted to it emotionally, and then I just called up the Red Pill. If I had wanted to I could have retaliated with an explosive response. So shaming is exactly those justification, rationalization, and defense mechanisms that women employ to criticize and impugn that which goes against the behavior that they expect and demand from men. It infuriates them when you pull back the curtain and the shaming doesn’t work anymore.
But thanks to this blog, women can’t pull my chains like they could before. And I can certainly yank on theirs.
I constantly comment on the idea of a new paradigm, the whole underlying set of filters and rules by which you emote, judge, act because the paradigm that you have if bullshit and works against you. These topics like Middle Age Crazy are exactly those concepts that you need to reform.
Let me first set some basics. In 2002, I was 47 years old. I was married, two kids, house in Louisville, Colorado, which is an upper middle class suburb of Boulder or Denver, however you wish to look at it. My house was valued at 589,000 at the time of the divorce. We filed income tax on $250,000. I worked in software and she worked as a gas broker, a trader like a stockbroker. We had two young kids, European nannies, 3 cars. Everything revolved around the kids, weekend and weekday activities. I had the kind of credit where you could walk into a dealer, sign a piece of paper, and walk out with a new car. And I was fucking near insane with frustration and anger. I did everything you were supposed to be doing. I get jammed in comments about “your beta ass”. I was doing what you were told by the world that you should be doing. And I wasn’t just standing around saying “Yes ma’am” all of the time. But I did often trade peace for a lost position. So what would have been the alternative in the situation, jacking her ass over every issue, standing my ground all the time? And the rest was just habit, social convention, those things that men do because the world says that men should do them. And we fucking do them because we are good and decent motherfuckers.
Today I live alone. I earn a fraction of what I did back then. Women are practically absent in my life. I have no desire to enter into any sort of LTR with one and unless some remarkable change in fortune occurs then I do not foresee having another one. Because I have no women in my life after such a long time of having them in my life allows me to see the sacrifices that a man has to make in order to have one in his life. It takes so little for me to be happy without that stress of women, their demands, what it takes to get them and keep them.
The difference in me now and then is remarkable. I am genuinely much, much more content today that I was then and by any external judgment of my life today compared to back then, I would easily be considered a failure. I am healthier, much less angry, and in a far better mood most of the time. People would have described me as angry back then and many that read my comments today would say the same. But I don’t feel that way. I feel strongly about creating a new consciousness in men about the reality of women, and of Femcentric society (Femcentric gets a spell checker red line underneath it. It still doesn’t exist as a word yet).
So there is anything that a reader should take from this blog and from the Red Pill is it is “You make a tremendous sacrifice by entering in a Long Term Relationship with a women. And that sacrifice is far greater than you are conditioned to believe. You give your freedom, your effort, your heart, and I can tell you, a tremendous amount of material and financial resources and assets.”
And I can also tell you emphatically. IT WILL GO UNAPPRECIATED. IT IS EXPECTED. IT IS DEMANDED. IT IS THE PRICE OF EVEN SITTING AT THE TABLE.
Now, eventually many of you will get to where I am at, where that circuitry that causes to you desire and wish to have women in your life gets fucking fried, where you cross the line that that last betrayal, that last bullshit selfish bitch, that last episode of dealing with them that will make you choose that it is better to be without them.
Or you can find The Middle Way. And I use that Buddhist term for a reason. Buddhism isn’t a religion. Buddha wasn’t a god or a prophet. He was a dude with an idea that came to him after living life as a rich prince then rejecting that, he lived as a poor beggar monk.
And these are the Four Noble Truths of Buddhism:
-Life is suffering
-We suffer because of our desire and craving
-There can be a cessation of suffering: it is the remainderless fading away and cessation of that same craving, the giving up and relinquishing of it, freedom from it, nonreliance on it.
-There is the way leading to the cessation of suffering: it is the Eightfold Path; that is, right view, right intention, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness and right concentration.
Now substitute the word “suffering” with “suffering because of women” and there you have the end to your suffering.
And the Eightfold Path is Game.
So I said this before. Let me get a little technical. There is the real and there is abstraction. The way you deal with abstraction is to create a frame with an underlying metaphor, a comparison to another thing that might be real or to a subsequent abstraction. If I would say “Freedom”, it would evoke an entirely different to a liberal as it would in a conservative and thus, they have no common ground to find agreement.
So this post shows that some abstractions like “Mid Life Crisis” gets stacked on abstraction, which is further stacked upon more abstractions like “obligation”, “responsibility”, “maturity” and you look at any of those words and see a Femcentric influenced abstraction in each of them.
And that is why I continually preach that the LTR is no good for you. You cannot trust that the abstractions in your head will not fail you at some time and cause you to accept treatment and expectations that you should not, to make decisions or take actions that you should not.
The LTR is a game that even if you even if you don’t lose, you still lose. You have been so conditioned not to see what you have lost, and not to see the true price that you have paid, are paying, and will pay.
It all starts when you are boy and it carries on your whole life. You are herded like cattle into male situations that you believe are what you should do. Both the carrot and stick are used against you to push you and keep you into those situations. It is point of pride for men that most STEM university degrees are earned by men. And those degrees require greater effort, dedication, thought, and capability than others. And I would argue that many of those men are pushed into those degree programs and they complete them because they feel they have no other option. While I was going to engineering school and I would get fed up with the work, the pressure, the not seeing the ground on the way to take a final because my head was scooping from studying and staying in the highest level of abstractions possible, I knew I had no other choice. If I ever left then the money pressure from women would push me right back into it. There would always be that ubiquitous question from them, “What do you do?” I never had another alternative; at least I was conditioned to believe that. The thought of not finishing would make me sick to my stomach with fear. And everything I did from what I ate, to how I dressed, the music I listened to, to the cars I drove was all based and driven by some Femcentric notion that I would be judged worthy or not by women.
And fuck you. Don’t you fucking “beta ass motherfucker” me. Every one of you has to admit the same fucking thing.
You don’t have to go there. You don’t have to do it. Follow Game Buddhism.
So I say this over and over. Until you gain the right consciousness, to understand which values in your head are conditioning from the Femcentric Female Imperative, then rely on Game, the fundamental and basic rules of game. Learn to approach. Learn to give yourself options other than the LTR. Walk on relationships readily and promptly. Never submit. Never marry. Never be afraid to leave and do leave. Set a 90 day limit. Then get the fuck out.
With time, education, exposure, awareness, and true contemplation, the real will make itself apparent from abstract conditioning. Or you can just go along with scam like you have been taught to do.
You are the prize. Your freedom and sanity is the price you will pay for an LTR. You are the one making the real sacrifice and let me tell you, it is a great sacrifice that you make. I have made it and I no longer choose to make it. And by not making it and seeing the benefits of not making it, then I can tell you that it truly is a great sacrifice that you will make if you enter into an LTR with a woman.
She does you no favor and she really favors you by not picking you.
Fuck women. In every sense that phrase entails.